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Please Don't Judge Me....

I lost my daughter she was 4lbs & 6ounces
i love my baby so much & i feel like if i had of
did something or anything different she would
have made it .. when i found out i was pregnant
i was scared i didnt tell any adult i just told my
best friend & she gave me so much support
i didnt think i need to tell an adult ; we talked more &
she told me to tell a adult i trusted so i did ...
i wasnt eatting right dressing right i was stressing &
i did something bad like twice , i feel horrible
like what i shouldve done i didnt & i cant take that
back now ; i just really need some answers
so i can do the right thing instead of screwing up again ....
please answer & help me doctor
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replied March 28th, 2012
im sorry for your lost i know that was hard. but your still young instead of thinking about wanting a baby you should focus on school and your future ahead of you, have a good job and a good thing for you before bring a baby in this world. babies take up your whole time and are big responsablities and i dont think right now your body is ready to hold a baby and i wouldnt want you to try to have another one and you have another loss i say you just wait and live your life before having a baby
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replied March 28th, 2012
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thank you , i know how it is to raise a child
i know that its a major responsibility i have been
raising && taking care of babies , toddlers , etc
since i was 5 its simple to now its really nothing major
anymore i just want this feeling like gone or filled,
you know ? i dont want you to think your words have
gone to waste though i take them to heart & i thank you
& appreciate you wanting to help .....
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replied March 28th, 2012
you can take peoples opinions but maybe think it threw on if its 100% what you want tbh
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replied March 28th, 2012
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thank you , i will ....
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replied March 30th, 2012
It sounds like right now you are feeling lost and alone. Girls often think that if they have a baby, they will have someone with them who will always love them and make them feel special, and needed. A baby, who becomes a child, then a teen, needs constant care and attention. They are all consuming with their wants and needs. What may seem fun in the beginning will wear you out and change your young life forever! What a difference it will make when you are older and married to a wonderful man who wants to share the whole experience with you (and you know Mary Jane, that is what you deserve...someday). If you don't have a loving adult in your life to share these feelings with, please talk to a school counselor, or a nurse! Whatever you do, please see how important YOUR life is and can be, and wait!!The best gift you can give to your future babies is to be fully mature and ready to be a parent before you have them! You have a responsibility to them, and to yourself! Make the right choices and work now on making your future bright and wonderful! Take Care...
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replied March 31st, 2012
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thank you very much , thank you ...
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replied April 5th, 2012
i am also your age and i am in love with children, i feel that it is my purpose in life to have a baby and i understand the full responsibilities. even at 5 years old i raised my new born brother for my mother and i loved every minute of it. i want my own child terribly and i can't help but think my parents would hate me or judge me and i don't want that reputation but i want a child so badly
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replied April 6th, 2012
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i understand you completely , but it seems like no one understands what we feel or how come its that feeling you know , you can inbox me anytime so we can chat more ..
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replied April 12th, 2012
I understand the feeling y'all r having I had the same feeling at ur age. My advise would b to wait. I do not regret having my children at all but I wish I would have waited till I was older so I could spend more time with them. Also now I am happily married to a man who has no children and because I started so early and had 4 children by the time I was 21 I had my tubes tied and have complications due to so many pregnancys at such an early age now can not have children. And it hurts to know that I can not give the man I love so much a child of his own.
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replied April 12th, 2012
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im sorry & its like really hard ....
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