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Im feeling like ill never be happy or loved

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January 25th, 2012
I’ve been single for a while now and I feel as if I’m too ugly for anyone to be interested in me or to like me. But I want to be loved and wanted by someone. I feel real lonely when I see the people (friends) around me dating and in love. Whereas I am always pretending that I love being single when I actually HATE it. I don’t know what do to, or how to have more confidence in myself. I hate looking at the mirror, because I hate what I see.
Every morning I wake up and tell myself, I’m beautiful, I must believe I’m beautiful to feel it. But it doesn’t work. All I feel is worthless.
I just can’t stand being alone anymore, it’s driving me insane, and the worst part is pretending that I’m Happy.
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ssid
replied January 26th, 2012
seriously you need to love yourself first accept who you are and seriously it has someone who loves you but may be afraid to step up to you because you may be showing the sign that you love being single try and love yourself and others will love you and try not to act like you happy being single
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sometimeslonely
replied January 26th, 2012
Well, I have different sort of problem and I can not solve that problem. I have thought too much about it and ended up using my time and energy towards nothing. All I did was concentrated on the things I did not have and although my glass was nine tenth full all I could see was empty one tenth. I realized I cannot fill my glass, but I can be thankful for the whatever I have. I would say, try to concentrate on things god endowed you with. Being sad or angry about something is perfectly natural. But remind yourself that this negative feeling will never help.
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carol1948
replied February 21st, 2012
i can symphatize with YOU KOLIZA ITS HOW I FEEL AT TIMES I TRY TO BE POSITIVE BUT NEGATIVITY TAKES OVER CAROL
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vrkazumi
replied February 21st, 2012
Becoming happy and feeling beautiful may be a process. I don't know where you are at in your life, but here are two choices that you can make, if I were you.
One is that you just keep feeling lonely, not beautiful and wined up with someone who is not good for you, or someone who would just take advantage of you.
The other choice is that accept the fact about what you are feeling right now and start making conscious choice to direct your life toward to where you want to get to.
Most people just don't feel what you feel just because..., maybe there is a reason why you feel that way and even you even don't know it yet.
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