urine is sterile unless you have a bladder/urinary tract infection. Check out d-mannose, it's a simple sugar that the bacteria which cause urinary tract and bladder infections LOVE, BUT they will be drawn to it and flushed out of your bladder instead of staying on your bladder walls. So drink lots of water with the d-mannose. It's not hard to take at all. I've heard the suggestions to drink cranberry juice but I hate that stuff lol. It probably works too, though.
I think even if pee is sterile, it can irritate the vagina. But it sounds like you have a uti/bladder infection.
best wishes