I am 22 years of age and my ex is 18. We had just broken up recently due to (from my perspective) unforeseen circumstances. I am going into the air force soon and wanted her to be there by my side as i was getting my life together after 4 years of painful living situations (ie living out of my car, couch surfing). She has been there for me since the beginning and the last couple of months were rather hard on our relationship because of her going to college. She had tried constantly and i tried to convince her to stay because of my life change to the air force. I had tried a sex-free relationship option, which she said okay at first, but no the next day. Then i told her that maybe we should just not see each other for a bit of time (not break up) and then come back and try again, which she was okay with then said no later. Then i told her that if i could change myself, i would to make it better, and she had said it would be fine, but then said that she didn't want to try the day afterwards. After all of that, she left me. she said that she didn't love me anymore right now and doesn't think that we will get back together. I asked her if she could think, not believe, that i was re-datable, and she said yes. She is family to me and I love her to death. Is there a way to get her back?