Wow--mental abouse is th right word..My mother when I was young called me stupid, dum and all those things..I grew to know better..

You are in college--you have a choice-stay where you are and let her pay your bills OR move out get loans and be your own boss.Many people do this and survive..I would never stay anywhere not wanted..Maybe someday you guys can be friends or at least on friendly terms..Hope all goes well for you..kd

i agree you have to get away from her. you are a young adult and should be making your own decisions and not your mom making them for you.
i know your mom is financially stable and your probably comfortable in that way.
you might have to find a way to leave and struggle for a while. is there any relatives you can live with, or friends.
let it be your goal to figure out how your going to move out of that house.

hi
i have been abused by mom when i was young believe me something horrible but when she grew up i told her all about it she cried and she ask for my forgiveness and she made it up for me. and now i am a mom so i know how she thinks. your mom is not aware of how much she is hurting you by this treatment . you need to write her a letter telling her how much it hurts. and im telling you no one will ever love you or be there for you as your mother she is the only one who would love you for nothing. and you are an adult know all people your age work and pay for their own tuition and believe me if she say i wish you are never born maybe cause she lost her temper but if anything bad happened to you she would die every single day. first hun look at the way you treat her do you yell at her, do you talk with respect to her, do you ignore her, are you helping her with stuff or she carries all the duties and responsibilities by her self. maybe you are hurting her without knowing thats why she treated you this way. just make sure that you are doing the right thing. remember that she nearly die giving birth to you and she spend days without sleeping taking care of you wile you are young she feeds you she clean your diaper would you do this to any one. she deserve dear some love and respect if you start with them you will gain your hart most mothers when they treat their son badly they cry all night regretting that thing thats how i feel and how all my friend does.
i wish you would deal with it in a smart way because you are smart and you know how women react they only want love and sweet words thats the old trick and i hope every thing will get better hun.

i hate my parents too, but the best thing you can do is SHUT them OUT! i am completely serious. Just, build yourself a bubble, block the bad things they say to you or do to you. Just think about what's at the end of this long bridge...being your own boss! I'm 6 years away from this goal since im 13 - well, almost 13. This way has helped me get past the last 12 years of my life. When they yell at you, just nod your head and don't say anything, it only makes things worse. And, when they tell you to do something, do it, and when they hit you, just take it and think of your goal!

Bye, i hoped this helped.
Maybe my condition is worse or better than yours, but every kid with abusive parents should follow this guide.

C ya