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I think im errrm... Straight

Hi, So yesterday I had sex with another bloke, I did not enjoy it (just made a few enthusiastic grunting noises for effect) the strangest thing is he was a really nice man with muscles and the lot, but afterwards and I dont mean any offence to anyone by this, but I felt physically sick, I was so sure I was gay, but this has really confused me now.
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replied July 26th, 2010
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Maybe he was bad in bed.

Are you attracted to women? What made you sure you were gay?
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replied January 29th, 2011
You should understand homosexuality a bit better. You may not have liked bottoming, but you may like topping. Being gay doesn't necessarily mean you have to, for lack of a better term, "bend over" for someone. Research it a little and try your luck again. If you do decide to bottom, be sure to use the proper tools (lubrications, condoms etc.). Good Luck!
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replied February 5th, 2011
It may be that your reaction afterwards was due to a conflict in your mind regarding many years of being told that sexual attraction to a male is wrong.
Many guys go through years of torment coming to terms with being attracted to another guy. Your reaction is common, most likely a form of guilt, which has been expressed as a physical sick feeling.
You need to be totally honest with yourself and let the feelings you have be and not over analyse them.
If you find a guy attractive and there is a need to have sex with that person, then that is all the answer you need. You may go through a period of finding males attractive or even just one or two.
There is also the chance you may meet a female and you may be totally happy with that.
I posted an answer to a question on the post titled "masturbation". I think you may get a lot from my answer.
Don’t label yourself.
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