If your girlfriends would shun you then they aren't very good friends..as for your boy friend...well, that is a personal matter..why would you want friends who hate gay or bi people? You are judged by the company you keep...I say dump the friends if they are so closed minded..

i am bi sexual. its not anything you should have to hide or be afraid of i agree with ^ if your friends would leave you then they aren't very good friends in the first place.

Your own sexual preferance is no ones business but your own. i whole heartedly AGREE with my good friend HomerX....I don't think I'd want freinds who could not accept me from who I am.....Live your life as you well wish....there are a bazillion other people in this world who would gladly become your friend.....and I know I can speak for me and HomerX when I say... we'd be your friend!

you got that right,FGM and KiKi1234 !!!!! =)

i had strong thoughts when i was in my 20's. if i decided to do something about it, i wouldn't tell my family or friends.
it's none of their business. people make fun of things they dont understand.
i was going to church so one's argument would be im contradicting myself.
if you peruse that life style i m sure you'll start to meet women that understands how you feel and you'll be able to talk& relate to each other.

I know this question wasnt initally mine but I can relate.....

Im bi dating a man at the moment but its hard to just dump my friends. My best friend on 16 yrs. now 21 said if I was gay he would have nothing to do with me!! Should the same rule apply and just dump him after all we've been through. I also agree with the not excepting then dont be around issue as well but its ezr said than done.

sorry but I would tell the person I was gay or bi and let the cards fall where they do..no matter how many years we were friends,I don't want to be friends with people who judge and dislike others based on who they are attracted to...

"im not gay" lol because of our society I feel obliged to say tht, not that there's anything wrong with it : D

but really im not, and as for your girlfriends?

you should slap those btches. who would shun u because your a lesbo? lesbianism is like universily accepted and even acclaimed.
they sound like horrible people, id spit at those close minded hos.