well wots the problem if you like him n he likes you then thats all that should matter at the end of the day those white guys you say you always date cant be doing you that much good if your single. you should give this guy a try not beacause hes black but because you like him. imagine this is your one chance of happiness and because of what people think you miss it n u spend the rest ov your life a miserable spinster(slight exaggeration). dating "someone like him" shouldnt be no different to dating a white guy as they all have the same anatomy and pigs or good guys come in shades and shapes. go on a date and see how it goes dnt rush into anything because i seems like you have to evaluate if you are strong enought to cope with the racial predjuice you and him will receive from both the ignorant black people that will stare you out and the ignorant whote people that ill stare him out. every1 needs to get over themselves and mind their own biz ur fam n friends should be happy for you as long as the guy no matter what colour treats you like a princesss.
good luck n let us know what happens.

My boyfriend is BLACK. And no one in my family supports me or my community but we don't care. We love each other. I love him to death. It's hard but we did it. And there is nothing wrong with liking someone a different color. In my opinion they are better lovers. *-* I have two pics of us together on myspace if you want to see us. I have more but he doesn't let me put them on.

I don't see anything wrong with dating a black man.

Wendy

it's a shame that society is this way. i knew a white girl who had a baby by a black guy. she said they love her daughters complexion, but they're not speaking to her. the black guy was physically abusive, so that made it worse.

i am a black female, i've dated white guys and people in my neighborhood didnt like it. we got the dirty looks. this guy i've dated 10 years ago he would buy me gifts, and take me out to resturants, but never brought me over his house, as if he's scared someone will see him with a black chick.

another b/f i had was gorgeous italian guy and his mother told him to be careful b/c he doesnt know my neighborhood.

another white guy i talked to said his family dont like it, but they will give me respect.

one of my best b/f's are white and i will never forge him as long as i live.
i stop dating white guys it just seems like a hassle. but if i meet someone great it doesnt matter, but i m not going out looking for it.
of course i dont see the big deal. you should do what you want.

if you really like this guy, then race shouldnt matter, and neither should peoples opinions.

Yes this is a relevant topic to discuss especially now a days there is no limit to trying in something out of the box or go beyond the normal culture that we are taught so.

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babygurl08
Every guy you've dated has been like this guy. He has two legs, a penis and a thing for you and it really is that simple. There's nothing magical about skin, it's a coating to protect our musculature and ligaments. If people in your life see the skin on a man as anything different, then it's clear you need to get some different people in your life.

Dating somebody you really like is very exciting so don't worry what other people will say if you are going to a black guy it's your life and follow your heart, goodluck!