I am 15, 16 in 3 weeks. I had sex with my boyfriend a little over a week ago and the condom broke. He never ejaculates when using a condom so I didn't think much of it until I started having pregnancy like symptoms such as spotting, nausea, tiredness, and having to go to the bathroom more than usual. I don't know if it's all in my head or not but if I am pregnant I need a way to miscarry the pregnancy and I don't have enough money for an abortion. Please help me, I can't have a baby right now.
I have had this before, I even got to the point of ringing a Pregnancy Hotline, it turned out that the nausea I was feeling was actually psychological, the lady on the phone reassured me that I wasn't pregnant. She could also tell that I was extremely anxious and petrified about the 'pregnancy' Afterall, I was not pregnant. As soon as you start to concentrate on the pregnancy symptoms, the more likely you will THINK that your pregnant, basically you wouldn't usually count how many times you go to the toilet, but as soon as your anxious about pregnancy you will concentrate on all the symptoms.
My advice, call a hotline for teen pregnancy and explain your position, what symptoms you've had and get a test done by a doctor (or one at home)
You can also take a pill that is called the "Morning After Pill', here in Australia, when I have sex with my boyfriend and we don't use a condom I will take that pill. It is a contraceptive for the times when you forget/break your first contraception. It works very well, but maybe since it was a week ago, wait another week to have a test (the 'Morning After Pill' may not work after a week, it is best to use straight after sex or the morning after.
Hope this helps!! Don't stress!!
PS sorry its long!!
âIm having the same Problems i was on the DEPO for a year and 3 Months i have stopped my shot was Due in Aug Of 2010 I ended up haven unprotected sex with my Boyfriend In September and Still is have unprotected Sex with Him!My last period was Light And that was in July What is the chances of me getting pregnant. but like she said i have been haven the Frequent urination and back pains no morning sickness but alot of sleeping had been going on alot and i usually dont sleep like this but i also bee haven tenderness of my breast what could that mean also!