Hey man I can help..
Do you/have you watched a lot of porn in the past and masturbated to it?
You might be desensitized and have porn induced ED.
Your brain produces a chemical called dopamine to motivate you for sex.. But if you have been watching porn your brain will need more dopamine to get the same level of excitement over time.. This is why guys get into more extreme porn over time because their brains have changed without them knowing it.
basicaly your brain wants the constant blasts of dopamine that clicking to new videos provide, and your girl/wife doesn't do the trick anymore even though you are attracted to her your brain is numb..
So if you feel like this could be you hit me up man I know a lot about it and I'm here to help..
thousands of guys are going through this and no one has a clue!
Much love