I'm 17 and I can't get a full erection and when I do it doesn't even last long enough to put a condom on .I seem to get erect perfectly hard when I masterbate alone. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we had tried to have sex twice and each time I couldn't get hard enough for sex or even hard at all. I'm. Diffantly attracted to her and I love her but I can't do her and it fustrates. Me and she thinks its her fault. I just dnt know what to do . Do I. Have a problem or something is there anything I can do for it ?(_)
Do you/have you watched a lot of porn in the past and masturbated to it?
You might be desensitized and have porn induced ED.
Your brain produces a chemical called dopamine to motivate you for sex.. But if you have been watching porn your brain will need more dopamine to get the same level of excitement over time.. This is why guys get into more extreme porn over time because their brains have changed without them knowing it.
basicaly your brain wants the constant blasts of dopamine that clicking to new videos provide, and your girl/wife doesn't do the trick anymore even though you are attracted to her your brain is numb..
So if you feel like this could be you hit me up man I know a lot about it and I'm here to help..
thousands of guys are going through this and no one has a clue!
Well you can recover man...
Time and patience and your brain will heal just stop watching porn, and give up masturbation. Stay away from orgasm for awhile and let your brain heal... Check out my other posts for more info man
Much love here to help