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Q: I need romantic advice.
asked by: SnomanKilla on June 29th, 2009
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OK,this is going to be alot of information and please post back your opinion. Im 15, and i am sorta going out with my brothers girlfriend which is 27.(he is 27 also).we hug, and kiss, and talk, flirt, everything will we are alone.yes,we have had sex (oral and vaginal). we say i love u to each otherall the time. whenever im away from her i miss her to death as she does me aswell. i want to know if this is real love. we have decided when i turn 18 she is gonna leave my brother and me and her are going to move away.

1.) How can i tell?
2.) what are your opinions?
3.) do you think we should leave with each other?
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rightside
replied on July 4th, 2009
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YES...you should leave this situation ASAP... you should not be with a woman who is almost old enough to be your mother. I'm not even sure that what you are doing doesn't constitute child molestation. This is not love. Your hormones are running wild, and you are getting them serviced by this woman. She should know better! She is cheating on your brother with you, which also makes her character questionable. What would your brother say? Better yet, what would your PARENTS say? You need to find a girl your own age, stop having sex with this one, and tell your brother he needs to find another girlfriend fast before he makes the mistake of marrying this one. She is a loser with a capital L!
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thoumas
replied on July 5th, 2009
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well first of, thats a crime. know as statutory rape. second of all "bros before hoes" your brother is way more important than this girl. also when ur in ur prime she will have wrinkles. also this is known as puppy love. if u can stay away from each other for atleast a month or 2 then u can think about calling it love.
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W0LF
replied on July 7th, 2009
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The only good advice I ever got was from a movie. Nobody can tell you you're in love, you just know it, balls to bone. So I can tell you I don't think you're not in love, you wouldn't be posting a question here if you really knew it. That's not to say you can't love someone much older than you are (albeit illegally). Your heart functions just the same as an adult's you feel the same emotions, if anything more intensely. However at your age that love is fickle and it may not be there in a few months. This girl may also love you but there's a lot of drama there, she's involved with one of your family members, breaking the law. We have to wonder if that's genuinely love or of there's something stranger going on there.

So here's the answer. If you love this girl you can't put her in legal jeopardy like this, it's disrespectful. If you really love this girl you shouldn't be sneaking around behind your brother's back. You both have to stop having sex until you reach the age of legal consent and be honest with your brother about what's going on. If your love can survive that you won't need to doubt it and you won't have to run.
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oddie
replied on July 11th, 2009
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im pretty sure thats against the law but its hard not to say good job but bros before hoes hes your brother man i wouldent let a chick come between me and my 22 year old brother
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SnomanKilla
replied on July 13th, 2009
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thoumas wrote:
well first of, thats a crime. know as statutory rape. second of all "bros before hoes" your brother is way more important than this girl. also when ur in ur prime she will have wrinkles. also this is known as puppy love. if u can stay away from each other for atleast a month or 2 then u can think about calling it love.


i cant staw away for more than 3 days
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SnomanKilla
replied on July 13th, 2009
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W0LF wrote:
The only good advice I ever got was from a movie. Nobody can tell you you're in love, you just know it, balls to bone. So I can tell you I don't think you're not in love, you wouldn't be posting a question here if you really knew it. That's not to say you can't love someone much older than you are (albeit illegally). Your heart functions just the same as an adult's you feel the same emotions, if anything more intensely. However at your age that love is fickle and it may not be there in a few months. This girl may also love you but there's a lot of drama there, she's involved with one of your family members, breaking the law. We have to wonder if that's genuinely love or of there's something stranger going on there.

So here's the answer. If you love this girl you can't put her in legal jeopardy like this, it's disrespectful. If you really love this girl you shouldn't be sneaking around behind your brother's back. You both have to stop having sex until you reach the age of legal consent and be honest with your brother about what's going on. If your love can survive that you won't need to doubt it and you won't have to run.


what do u mean something stranger??
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W0LF
replied on July 20th, 2009
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Do you know what a Red Flag is SnowmanKilla?
There are some behaviors people have that should be a cue that you want to think harder on what's going on.

Your lover is very close to being old enough to be your mom. Red Flag
Your Lover is almost very possibly committing a felony by being intimate with you. Red Flag
Your lover is having an affair with her boyfriend. Red Flag
The affair is with someone in her boyfriend's family, likely she is trying to get caught. Red Flag

If one or two things about her behavior was odd that's just human nature. However everything you've told us about her sets off alarms. Ask yourself why your lover doesn't behave like other women her age. Feel free to be critical of her motives. This situation is bizzare, every part of the arrangement she has a choice in is the choice that causes the most chaos. She may not be as into you as she is the situation. If you go away things may fall appart or she may make some more very dramatic decisions that make life worse for you.

I really think you need to take a look at this situation. I think you need to be honest with your brother. Obviously if you love this woman you cannot continue to put her in jeapordy of going to jail by having sex with her while you're not legal.
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veronica672
replied on July 20th, 2009
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Ew this is sick she is taking advantage of u she knws u are young and youve prob only ever been with her so u dnt knw any better,date someone your own age she is going to f*ck up your head because of this. And think about it thats YOUR BROTHER, how could she do that to especially HIS little 15 year old brother she has mental problems and trust me shes not going to leave him for u when your 18 shes just leading u on, go get laid by someone your own age!
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ServiceU
replied on July 26th, 2009
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what i've learned in my life time is "what goes around comes around". the things i've done when i was young and nyeve did come back on me when i was an adult. life is an experience, and you learn through wrong choices, hurt, and everything else in between.
you are a growing adolescent, you are still in the phase of puberty.
i am 33 years old and my son is 13 years old. you almost my son's age, and the women your with is almost my age.

what this women has done is wrong, what you failed to realize is the kind of person she is, and what she is capable of doing.
for example lets assume yall run away together, what happens when she gets bored with you. from what she did i wouldnt be surprised if she would sleep with your friend.
i talk to my son about his character-moral, ethical, quality. and this was done out of bad character from you both.
this will be a double hurt whammy for your brother, and probably dont deserve for his girlfriend or his brother to hurt him like that.
your living in a fantasy land if you really think this thing will last a long time.
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AliciaSad
replied on July 26th, 2009
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You are too young to date a woman that age. Is she nuts. You should totally get out of this relationship i mean honestly i know how it is to be love with an older person i fel in love with my fiance i was 13 and he was 17 but still 15 & a 27 year old honestly i think she is using you just to do it((ya know what i mean)) Im sure you can find another girl closer to your age who will love you for you and you will find love soon enough but dont rush it.
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ltdragon69
replied on September 25th, 2009
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hi I am dating a man who is 15 yrs older than I am. Sex is great- it is just that he has trouble keeping an erection. I do not want him going on viagra or cialis. I am very patient but do not know what to do. I feel like I can not keep him erect. Thanks
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ServiceU
replied on September 30th, 2009
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i dated a guy who was on viagra and i nicknamed him superman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
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