I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are so so happy! Were only 17 but have been close friends for over ten years, everything was okay at the start but he's always been really protective of me and jealous, like when we were first seeing eachother he dragged me out of a party screaming and being aggresive just because I was sat to near to boys? There's been quite a few other incidents, like last day of high school he had me by the neck against the school fence because some boy signed my leavers shirt, there's so many things since but nothing I couldn't move on from, my friends are all aware of the way he is and they kinda think it's "cute" that he must care about me so much, I have a couple friends who are concerned but I don't talk to them much anymore now :/ but last night made me want to write on here and find some answers, we had a usually argument over the phone cause I was taking to long to reply to his texts while getting ready for the party he was coming to at my friends, so we argued and he said it was over blah blah, then he got to the house and I walked over to give him a cuddle and make up but he was having none of it so I left him and more people came to the party as the night went on then I walked into the room he was sat in and he grabbed me and threw me into the hall way by the neck and was choking me then he hit me in the face and ripped my earrings out then loads of people pulled him off me, I was crying so my friend took me upstairs to calm down then I came back downstairs and walked into room acting normal and he got up and kicked me to the floor and kept kicking me then I got up and he grabbed my hair and neck calling me a " stupid sl** what the f*** you doing in kitchen when there's boys in there!!!" etc. After a while it calmed abit I sat down but then he got up and had a really heavy full bottle of yagermeister, just alcohol.. And threw it full force and my rib and I tried to get up fast to make him stay and fell to the floor in pain thinking I've broken a rib and said he hates me and walked out cause he said I looked at another boy when I was sitting down, I've got marks on my neck, legs and ribs are all bruised badly, but were back together and he's Said sorry once and said he will make up to me, I stayed at his that night and I woke up in the night to him crying I said what's wrong he just said I can't keep doing this to you, but I fell back to sleep? I don't know what to do, am I in an abusive relationship or a
I safe? I don't know! Please someone answer x
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