i miss him

The best thing that happened to you was that he was honest enough to let you go.. At least your not in a fake relationship...>>> ..Now pick your self up and have fun!!!!

i see your point but he is who i want to marry. i love him and i want to find a way to get him back. isnt there a way?

really try to forget him...at least until your heart can heal. Distance yourself from him and things that will remind you of him. Dont talk to him or communicate.

This is what I did to get over my ex. I hung on for three years. But finally I was finished loveing him and this is what I did. Eventually the pain got less and less and then it was gone. Now I can see him and feel nothing. Not anger sadness, nothing. Best wishes and hang in there.

Time will heal you.

Why do you want to marry someone who isn't madly in love with you? Be grateful he let you go to find that person.

Of course you can do it!!!!! I agree with Rosie H.... It's easy..... go out , meet new people, try doing something different> break out of your every day routine> be sponteaneous....

Trust me... I'm reminded of my ex all the time, whom I loved so much, and I cant just not see him when he is always on the radio, and his artist' are somewhere and I hear the music...

Its difficult, But your strong and you really deserve better.... You can talk to me anytime... Ok.

he is worth while and a loving person. he admits to not knowing what he wants. i want to give him space and have him miss me. i really feel we are meant to be. i am so happy when i am with him and even when im not. i just know that he feels for me and that it can work ... right? i really just think he needs to know how it is to not have me. i want him back so badly that i cant break loose so that he can miss me

If he doesn't know what he wants, why is he with someone else? Plus, it has been a few years... he had his shot with you, he didn't want it. He moved on and you need to too.

there is absolutely NO WAY you can make someone love you. There is no way you can convince someone to be with you. You could be the worlds best most attractive woman. You could be capable of giving any man the world. But if that man doesnt want what you have then thats it. I dont mean to sound harsh, but you cant do anything to change his mind.

if its been a couple years since he told you this then I think you need to come to terms with the fact that he doesnt want you anymore. I seriously dont mean to hurt you, but it took someone telling me straight up to relize my mistakes.

From the way you are talking and the way you have clung to him tells me that maybe you love him too much. Most confident secure men do not like a women to love them with their whole selves. its a turn off really to see a women completely consumed by a man. Maybe this is one of the reasons why he wont take you back. Again I do not mean to hurt your feelings. Im just being honest cause I have gone through the exact same thing as you.