How about being greatful they looked over your hurting post and gave you some insightufl answers?
they could have left your spineless rant alone, and said well we don't want to answer.
For the record, how about starting with a coffee or a movie date, or by calling her?
In retro-spect she apparently has every reason to reject you, and you're not working with much. If you want her back, work for it. SHOW her you want to EARN her not just treat her for granted like you have in the past.
Also you could try occupying your mind with NOTHING instead of EVERYTHING. Listening to I don't know Ocean sounds, or massage therapy are brilliant. You seem to be successful and hard-up from not getting away from the gym, tension is unnecessary. Try that.
The next time you get a response, maybe you should THANK them. That pissed me off, but I gave you a few pointers anyways. You might want to stop bangin' other girls too. :/ Huge turn off.
-Aetae