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Q: I'm not sure if the guy i like is gay or not
asked by: vgboy on May 3rd, 2009
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The guy I like i think he likes me back but i'm not sure. He sends me alot of signals but i'm not should i puruse them. We both go to the same highschool and we've known each other since eight grade. When we work together on projects and stuff, he would put his arm on the back of my chair or he would put his legs so close to my legs that i can feel his leg hair. He stares at me everyday and when i ask him what's he staring at he just smiles and turns around. We have plenty of things in common...I think the only difference between us is that he's white and plays soccer while i'm black and focus on my academics. He's cute,tall, and funny.I'm not sure should i puruse him or should i wait.
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homerx
replied on May 4th, 2009
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wait...you need to talk to him first and find out if he is gay or bi or whatever.If it turns out he is just a nice straight guy,you don't want to put yourself in an uncomfortable position...make sure he has no problem with gay people...high school is a weird time.
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JYoungBear
replied on May 4th, 2009
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Homer hit the nail on the head (like he always does!)... talk to him, and make sure you two are the same page (if he is/is not gay, if he is comfortable around gay guys, if he is looking for more, etc.) - get to know him as a friend, and you two will know for sure where you stand - things will fall into place from there.
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