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Q: I'm Feeling Really Down
asked by: ForMyPrivacy on June 3rd, 2009
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The title says it all. I don't know where to turn/what to do, I'm posting here just to talk about it I suppose.

I just feel really depressed, and that my life is going nowhere, and won't anytime soon.

I'm 20, male, and from the UK, and for the past 8 months I've been unemployed. I'm applying for 15-20 jobs a month and getting nowhere because of the recession. No job means no money, so that gets me down more. This has really taken a big knock on my self confidence, I feel I am nowhere near the person I was a year ago. Especially when talking to the opposite sex. I feel like a little child again when in conversations. Not to mention being a virgin and never having kissed anyone really getting to me at the moment, I just used to be able to laugh those off. I feel everything has amounted all at once, and it's just going to keep amounting if I keep it supressed.

I've also learnt that my dad may be losing his job soon, so we'll be down money wise as a family. It just seems like nothing can go right.

I can't talk to my friends about it, because they won't understand. They have money, jobs, cars and girlfriends. Four things I can't picture myself with. I actually came close to crying this afternoon.

Any advice/tips would be appreciated Smile
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ForMyPrivacy
replied on June 4th, 2009
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Never mind, feeling a lot better now after a good nights sleep and rest.

Thanks for the help....oh wait haha
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searchingforknowledge
replied on June 4th, 2009
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I have felt depressed many times in my life. It sounds like you are experiencing a true depression. If you are not taking medication, please talk to your doctor. It sounds trite, but medication really does help. I was so depressed 10 years ago that I contemplated suicide. A nurse practitioner recognized my depression and got me help. Perhaps she was more intuitive than my doctor or just more comfortable discussing depression. After starting medication, I felt much better. A counselor and talk therapy helped me work through some issues and my life got much better. It seems like you are having some bad luck right now. Enough to make anyone depressed. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Help is out there, it's just finding it.
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