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Im 22 and never had a proper relationship. I was always told all threw school and college that I was the most uglyest girl ever and that I was never going to get married because I was so ugly.

It just looks as though there right.

All the guys I fancy are taken and I never go out because I have no friends.
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replied January 12th, 2009
Extremely eHealthy
right mcr_mucc stop right there i know i have never seen you but no one is UGLY that is a horrible word ok! i am sure your beautiful plus you are still young and you have plenty of time to find a guy. and i don't for 1 minute beleive that you have no friends! stay positive and remember there is someone out there for every1 Jenny
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replied January 12th, 2009
Experienced User
you dont need friends to have a good time
just go out and see whats out there
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replied January 12th, 2009
Active User, very eHealthy
my dad is nasty to me because I have no social life

and why have I been told all my life that I will never get a boyfriend?
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replied January 12th, 2009
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man, seriously, stop letting things get to you and stop worrying .. ur going to drive urself crazy
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replied January 12th, 2009
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yep i totally agree with Elizabeth your gonna go mental hun just listen to what we are telling you and not to the things that people were saying back then. they don't matter now you do and your life your gonna make yourself ill if you carry on Jenny
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replied January 12th, 2009
Experienced User
jenny is right.
not only what we said is true but here is something else.
do u feel u NEED to have a boyfriend cuz everyone else does, or do u want a boyfriend to say u have one?
either way, it isnt fair to you or the guy.
get a boyfriend that u would like to have a future with and that u want to love you for who you are.
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replied January 12th, 2009
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so cheer up please Smile Smile
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replied January 12th, 2009
Experienced User
yes...
PLEASE!!!
=)
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replied January 13th, 2009
Active User, very eHealthy
Yes I really really really really really want a boyfriend. I've been desperate for one since I was 13. And the biggest thing I want in life is to be a mummy
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replied January 13th, 2009
Little steps at a time, grasshopper. If you've never been in a relationship, you will scare the out of your 'love interest' telling him you want a kid.
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replied January 13th, 2009
Active User, very eHealthy
well first I just want a loving relationship
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replied January 13th, 2009
Experienced User
my answer, stop looking!! i did and i found my man!! as for ugly, whoever said that to you, i hope there now experiencing themselves exactly what they put you through, what goes around comes around, trust me on that one, i went to school with used to get this kind of treatment, everyone tellin her she was ugly, made me wanna cry for her, do you know she is now 25 and happily engaged!! it will happen for you, the best way to go about it, get on with your life, be happy and show the world you are happy, happy smiling faces attract alot of attention, who wants to see gloomy ppl??? smile at the world and she smiles bk this i know from experience! having fully recoverd from depression myself!! hope ur ok xxx
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replied January 13th, 2009
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that msg meant to say *i went t school with a girl who* sorry xxx
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replied January 13th, 2009
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Was she told that she is the most ugliest thing that they've ever looked at?
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replied January 13th, 2009
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and yes she was, almost every day!!! and it was the nastiest thing iv ever heard!!! u need t give yourself a kick up the bum and toughen up hun!! hard as it sounds! these ppl are seriously not worth the time of day!!!!
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replied January 13th, 2009
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if u keep listening to other ppl say becuz if u continue to the things they are saying to you, you are going to get more and more depressed.
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replied January 13th, 2009
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exactly, and depression is seriously not a nice place to be so snap out of it as harsh as it sounds!!!
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replied January 13th, 2009
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In highschool I was called a cow and was told I was ugly and would never get a boyfriend, I have been asked out on more dates than I can count but I'm not really into it right now.

Your lack of confidence is what makes you ugly, everyone has a different thing they are attracted too but confidence would make you stand out more. Even barbie has problems, when she pulls kens pants down, she realizes there is nothing there giggle

I am not the prettiest person nor am I the ugliest but I somehow manage to meet some pretty interesting people alot of them are friends, someone said my face lights up when Im happy~!

I think you need to get into some extra curricular activities, kick-boxing, sports, anime, dancing, who knows but that is how you will meet people, plus it also makes you feel great~! Try to be positive@

If you ever want some idea or to chat send me a msg!
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replied January 13th, 2009
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i second diamondsz statement.
diamondsz, u hit it right on Smile
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