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Q: I just left my Girlfriend..
asked by: Firespasm on November 6th, 2009
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I finished her last night in a bar. We just got to the point where we always argue over stupid things like how to stack a dishwahser and ridiculous rubbish like that, its like we are making excuses to have a go at each other, we have only been together for a year and a month, its just been getting worse and worse and i cant take it anymore. she said nothing when i did it, just walks off with her back turned, then acts like nothing happened, smiles and laughter with her friend. am i really that easy to get over? Sad

Were both students and live in the same apartment with 4 other people. I feel so alone since i finished with her, and yet i know she is only a door down... i feel so down id call it depressed, im eating and stuff, its just i feel i have no purpose now.

I feel like my heart is pulling out of my chest, and when i think about her. i cry now for godsake. But i know id just be torturing myself if i go back. im so lost.
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tasume70
replied on November 6th, 2009
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Don't be lost, there are way too many girl's looking for someone who has the capacity to care. Arguing over trivial things is pretty normal, however, you have to decide what is most important and let the little things go. Everyone has their own way of doing things and that's what maked them individuals. I know its hard not to get caught up in the drama, but just let it go.
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ServiceU
replied on November 8th, 2009
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my ex pretended he didnt care when i broke up with him, because he didnt want to show that he was hurt so he acted like a tough guy.
a lot of couple have to learn the art of compromise and to respect each other's differences. however if you cant get along the best thing is to depart.
your heart will heal and you will be fine. i commend you for pulling out even though you still have feelings because i stayed until i fell out of love which resulted in five wasted years with a a-hole.
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