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Sorry to ask such a crude question..I have 3 kids a normal vaginal birth and i now have a big vagina..i have had men tell me this and say they can not feel anything (even from a big man)..i am very embarrassed about this. As a single mother if i had liked to get with a guy i thing it would be very very unfair on a guy if i was to start dating them with the problem i have as i would like to please them as much as i possible could and know this would be impossible. I have been single now for almost 2 and a half years and have called off an engagement and for a number of reasons and 1 been the problem i have as we had never had sex and if we got married he would have spent the rest of his life unhappy in the bedroom department as i seem to guess from what i had read that this is a big issue for men, so i am asking all the men out there (the men into serious relationships) what they think on this subject as i feel i am going to spend the rest of my life alone as i would never want to put a man through this as i know it can affect other areas of a relationship, i am at the point to vow myself to NEVER allow a man to get close, as the next man i ever sleep with i will have to be married to due to religious belief's..children prior to becoming religious, now you understand why i am worried to death..thank you for taking your time to read..
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replied October 9th, 2010
if you looking for a non surgical solution you might want to try keigel excersizes? im not too sure but i will keep researching.
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replied October 9th, 2010
thank you for the reply..kegal exercises doesn't seem to be working for me as last time i have ever had sex it didn't feel any different that it usually does, I have looked into surgical option and will cost alot which i do not have the money for it, i feel i have gone past the mark of non-surgical options as i feel i am TOO BIG for kegal to work, just wanted some input from guys thoughts on this subject and if i am doomed to be alone!! thank you
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replied October 9th, 2010
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Kegals must be done immediately after childbirth to really get some good results...There is some kind of item that you can purchase and insert inside your vagina...You walk around with it inside you and grip it with your vaginal muscles...As you get better you make the item smaller...Hopefully someone on the Forum will know what it is that I am talking about...I wish I knew what it was called, but it works...I believe that it comes in different sizes and you make it smaller and smaller...You learn to use your inactive muscles...Ask your physician as he/she may be able to help you on this...I am sorry, but I just can't recall the name of it...Good luck....

Caroline
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replied October 13th, 2010
CarolineEF wrote:
Kegals must be done immediately after childbirth to really get some good results...There is some kind of item that you can purchase and insert inside your vagina...You walk around with it inside you and grip it with your vaginal muscles...As you get better you make the item smaller...Hopefully someone on the Forum will know what it is that I am talking about...I wish I knew what it was called, but it works...I believe that it comes in different sizes and you make it smaller and smaller...You learn to use your inactive muscles...Ask your physician as he/she may be able to help you on this...I am sorry, but I just can't recall the name of it...Good luck....

Caroline
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benjua balls?
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replied October 13th, 2010
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CarolineEF wrote:
Kegals must be done immediately after childbirth to really get some good results...There is some kind of item that you can purchase and insert inside your vagina...You walk around with it inside you and grip it with your vaginal muscles...As you get better you make the item smaller...Hopefully someone on the Forum will know what it is that I am talking about...I wish I knew what it was called, but it works...I believe that it comes in different sizes and you make it smaller and smaller...You learn to use your inactive muscles...Ask your physician as he/she may be able to help you on this...I am sorry, but I just can't recall the name of it...Good luck....

Caroline
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benjua balls?


Hi statusxbossy89....Thank you so much....I couldn't remember the name of them.... I have heard that they do work...Actually I think it is Ben Wa Balls...Take care...

Caroline
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replied October 15th, 2010
CarolineEF wrote:
statusxbossy89 wrote:
CarolineEF wrote:
Kegals must be done immediately after childbirth to really get some good results...There is some kind of item that you can purchase and insert inside your vagina...You walk around with it inside you and grip it with your vaginal muscles...As you get better you make the item smaller...Hopefully someone on the Forum will know what it is that I am talking about...I wish I knew what it was called, but it works...I believe that it comes in different sizes and you make it smaller and smaller...You learn to use your inactive muscles...Ask your physician as he/she may be able to help you on this...I am sorry, but I just can't recall the name of it...Good luck....

Caroline
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benjua balls?


Hi statusxbossy89....Thank you so much....I couldn't remember the name of them.... I have heard that they do work...Actually I think it is Ben Wa Balls...Take care...

Caroline


yes you are right thats how its spelled. i used to manage an adult novelty shop, and i had women swear by them! i personally never tried but hear nothing but good things about them. my mind wasnt with me the night i spelled that haha. thanks!!
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replied October 15th, 2010
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Originally, Ben Wa Balls are sex toys from the far east. It is small round hollow metal balls connected by a string. The hollow balls are filled with a small weight. You insert it into your vagina and go about your daily routine. The small metal weights inside these balls move around as you move around, causing the ben wa balls to move around inside your vagina.

You can think for yourself what happens when these balls move around inside your vagina during walking around or at the gym......

You can also look at vaginal dumbbells or vaginal weights. These are devices made for helping you tightening the pelvic floor muscles and do kegel exercises. Just use the google and search the interwebs for 'vaginal dumbbell'. These are normally covered by medical insurance if prescribed by your doctor. Some manufacturers also make small balls in increasing weights that act as vaginal weights, similar to ben wa balls. These can be used to strengthen the pelvic floor and pc muscles.
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replied October 15th, 2012
i had sex with my partner 5 times now i feels my vaginal hole is becoming big how it can be small again
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replied October 16th, 2012
Yes it can. Just don't push anything apart from penis in it so it can be normal again...
Stay safe! be healthy...
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replied October 16th, 2012
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Do lots and lots of kegel exercises, every day.
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replied March 13th, 2013
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My wife and i have 4 kids her vagina is cavernous but sex is GREAT remember that as a female most of your sexual sensation comes from clitoral stimulation and you have plenty of other ways to satisfy your man remember penetration is not the only way to satisfy him i prefer my wifes huge vagina because we can have sex for hours and wen she's satisfied a little oral and total bliss. If anything my wifes massive vagina has improved our sex life.
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