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Q: I hate my life
asked by: kelvin55 on June 30th, 2009
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im a 15 yr old boy myy life is so bad.

i have a younger bro and sis and guess wut they are cooler then me they have friend and always go outside and make fun of me about how ugly i am and how i dont have no friends and stay inside playing games.

in skool everyone calls me ugly even boys say im hideous every person calls me ugly
even my bro and sis and thier friends. im so sad about my life i think about my future and how will i become and will i ever get married rite now im trying to do my best in skool so i can have a good job i am smart and a nerd but still im really ugly people say my teeth are messed up which im getting braces next month they say i have small eye wierd head and acne. why do they have to be so mean to me they even say it to my face and just mock me. even when i do have some friend thier actually not cuz they make fun of me too

does anyone have advice i feel like a loser asking on the internet but it doesnt matter im still a loser in real life
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potoglod
replied on June 30th, 2009
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hay kid brains are foreever not the looks live laugh love,I remember how hard people can be ..but they grow and in your case you will because you even shine when you write ..spelling tx
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kelvin55
replied on June 30th, 2009
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potoglod wrote:
hay kid brains are foreever not the looks live laugh love,I remember how hard people can be ..but they grow and in your case you will because you even shine when you write ..spelling tx



what my writing shines i spelled school skool and made some mmistakes

what do ya think and what to work on =(
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ServiceU
replied on June 30th, 2009
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i was bullied when i was a teenager, then i went home to get physically and verbally abused by my father. kids that young dont think about if theyre hurting you, they dont think about how you feel.

to your friends, you need to tell them that what they say hurt your feelings, and if they keep doing it, i would leave them alone. you dont need to be with anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself.

your sister and brother is teasing you also, they dont know that your taking what they say to heart. i would sit down and talk to them. explain to them that everyone has flaws and it's not good to tease anyone for any reason.
dont feel like a looser for posting a question on this site. i posted many questions and i m not a looser.
it comes down to how you feel about yourself, i know people can make you feel bad about yourself. sometimes you have to ignore them.
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ServiceU
replied on June 30th, 2009
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i seen your picture and i think that you are very attractive. i like the way you look and if you were 20 years older i would date you. lol
i absolutely love your lips, and when you get older a lot of women will also.
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kelvin55
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Thanks so you dont think im ugly? seriously so how come everyone i mean everyone say i do ={

most of the boys in my class get girls and girl say they are cute but im always the ugly one

and when i get older girls will like me how is that?

and it's hard to sit down and talk to my bro and sis they dont care about me they just tell me to shutup and say no life loser and stuff so i don't even bother with them.
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wendyrs
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Kelvin, I agree with ServiceU...You are a good looking kid. I'm a middle school teacher and what I've noticed about bullies is that if they sense they think is a weakness meaning (being shy, smart, quite) they will choose that child to pick on. Eventually what happens is the kid being bullied starts to believe they are ugly or less of a person, losing their self-confidence and feeling depressed. They are probably jealous of you and someday you will have a good job and a nice family and they will be nothing. Just find some nice kids to hang out with that maybe have the same interests, do the things you enjoy doing, show that you have self-confidence by not allowing the bullies to get the best of you and eventually they will leave you alone. As for the girls in your class, when girls are young they like the mean, bad boys because it makes them feel good and special to be liked by those types of boys. Eventually they get tired of the bad boys and seek a nice guy like you to marry. If you think you're a nerd, it's ok because it's the nerds that are most successful in life. Find some activities you enjoy, clubs with other kids that are smart and enjoy school and you might even find a nice gf that appreciates a nice, handsome, smart boy like you. Keep your head high and smile...You're better than them.
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yoo
replied on June 30th, 2009
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hey there!life dishes out many mean obstacles,this is one of them.Iwas bullied at school an at home also.Iwas called ugly all the time never got boyfriends never invited to parties etc.Guess what Iam here and enjoying life now cause we all learn its not the looks it is whats inside by reading your posts you are a strong kid and you will do greatin life.Talk to your family tell them whats going on I am sure they will stop,keep your chin up k
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kelvin55
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Thanks guys im feeling a little better im going to follow these advices im lucky to have found this site it's nice.
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wendyrs
replied on June 30th, 2009
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I'm so glad we can help! You're a great kid. We're here if you need to talk.
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rightside
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Kelivn, you are a good looking guy! I think the ones who call you ugly are just jealous, cause when you get a few years older, the girls are going to be chasing you everywhere! I don't see much to improve actually. All your features are nice and go together perfectly. Nothing too big or too small. Teenage years are such a pain! The jealous ones aways bully others to make themselves seem cooler. Just laugh it off, and tell yourself you are above their crap. In a few years, grow a sharp moustache, maybe a little beard, get some contacts and man, you'll be ready for a modeling job! Want to make yourself feel better? Get some cool new clothes. Nothing lifts a person's self-esteem more than when they are dressed in a really sharp outfit. Good luck, but you certainly don't need it!
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kelvin55
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Again thanks guys i will try to ignore them when they make fun of me and just keep on going and i hope next year when im a sophmore i have better luck with friends
highschool is a pain

i prefer middle way better highschool i have less friends espiaccaly girls that are friends this year i only talked to like one girl idk how is that different but i just hope next year is better.
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wendyrs
replied on June 30th, 2009
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Kelvin,

Once the bullies don't see that they are bothering you anymore they will leave you alone.
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hopefulmom9
replied on June 30th, 2009
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don't worry kelvin,
i used to be made fun of in in school. they used to beat me up, call me ugly, and retarded. in my heart and soul i know that i am not ugly or retarded. actually with all the being made fun of made me blossom into a flower, and beautiful as a swan. want to know why? because, i believed in myself. i didnt believe anyone else, accept me. so, so dont let anybody, hurt or bother you. they are just trying to get you angry and depressed. for fun!
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breck08
replied on July 1st, 2009
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Sweetie stay true to yourself! I worked in administration at a high school for 8 years. There always was a few that was ridiculed and bullied. Those are the ones I watched grow into fine young adults. 15 is such a hard age. Boys like yourself are struggling to fit in and hormones are going crazy. Acne? You will out grow it. I looked forward to every fall to watching my little birds grow and fly away. I bet your senior year you will look in the mirror and say WOW! You are your own individual and you will bring your own uniqueness to this world. I promise you one day you will see the ones that the girls were gaga over will not be all that. Robert Frost's poem was one I used a lot with my students.
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
You took initiative to post and that took guts. So what you do not travel the road with all the traffic. You will find at the end of your journey.....you! Get active in school. Join a group. Literary, Computer, SGA, Yearbook, etc. Every day that you face obstacles say to yourself, this too shall pass.
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ServiceU
replied on July 1st, 2009
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my ex boyfriend was italian and black, he was gorgous. he told me he was popular in high school. he was popular when i was dating him in my 20's, every women wanted him.
so he never knew what real love is, he just had women come and go. and talking about how he was so popular in high school, i found out he was a drug dealer collecting disability. so he's good looks and popularity didnt mean anything.......he was a bum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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bamagirl1
replied on July 1st, 2009
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hey sweetie .i was a shy person who m inded my own and just went to school to graduate and leave . in 7th grade the 'bullies' decided it was my day to be beaten up and picked on. lets just say that by the end of the day they were my 'friends' i stood up for myself and beat the girl up when she came after me i never let them think im weak . never let anyone know they are getting to you thats what gives them their power . and all the bullies in my school are all fat and bald and the cheerleaders are all overweight. im still skinny and people call me pretty now not them so your day will come when you are in a successful career and they work at the auto store. i just wish i had had the attitude i have now then . so take our advice to heart. we have lived it. and we are the ones who come out on top. you get those good grades make a good living and youll show them in the end. oh and where are your parents in all this, they should never let your siblings treat you this way ever. but just know my own little brother no longer has a older sister i refuse to speak to him ever again he was the spoiled brat child and never grew out of it. so he can spend life alone without me. you do have a choice who to accociate with . there is a girl out ther waiting for you and God will give her to you at thew right time.i got my man when i was 28 so dont fret shes there. good luck darlin everything works out in the end. this is God making you the better person in the end. your going to make a very special guy for someone one day our types are always the the ones who show the most love and compassion towards others. have a great life.
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honey4
replied on July 2nd, 2009
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i think that is just f**king horribble.
and by your own brother & sister? your own blood? they ought to be effing ashamed of themselves, i know if they were my siblings i would have hit them both. what do your parents do to them when they treat you like this?
no body deservs to be treated like this- actual no one! just stay smart and concertrate on ur studies so when u finally finish highschool u can be smart & rich & all those idiots who ever called u ugly will be wishing they never did, and wishing they were u.

really sorry. truly am Sad hope this helps or cheers u up
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kdlee
replied on July 2nd, 2009
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Honey I am so sorry your feelings have been hurt like this..Kids including your own family hurt alot..My yonger sister use to call me fat and ugly..Know what I am overweight but not ugly..So what..You are intelligent, handsome, loving and caring..One day you just might be another Bill Gates and where will those who mde fun be? Acne is rough but you can go to a dermatoligst to keep help in this area-or-there is now laser being used to assist in the cleaning up of acne and scars..Do be careful about what you eat and keep your hands away from your face..It's so easy to rest your hands on your face and irritate any acne..

Keep your head high-if you will look these people in the eye and let them know you will no longer allow them to upset you they will gradullay back off..

Look around there are kids in the same boat begging for friends..Take on extra stuff at shool and get to know the kids more..Don't hide away you are worth knowing..
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kelvin55
replied on July 2nd, 2009
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thanks all of you guys for making me feel better about my self =]
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