Hello my name is April my fiance and I have been together almost a year and I feel that it is all for the wrong reasons... A couple of months ago he told me (now this could have been out of anger but it still is in the back of my mind) that my engagement ring isn't an engagement ring its a promise ring he got pushed into it.. In hindsight he won't even tell his parents that we are engaged like he is embarrassed.. But mind you less we didn't know that I was pregnant we didn't find out until Dec. 6th and the Dec. 26th we found out we were having twins.. He has also has said other things like if you weren't pregnant he would throw me to the curb... I am sure that I have said hurtful things too I am not a saint... But I really think that we are staying in this relationship for all the wrong reasons and later we both are going to be miserable... Also I have pulled out of work and put on bed rest but he really still expects and gets upset when I don't do laundry, dishes, cooks, cleans and other things.. I have been told to take it easy but it seems every week that I am cleaning the house and every 2 weeks doing laundry and then end up in the labor and delivery room with bad contractions.. I think also that this is a light bulb turning on in my head telling me that he isn't going to help after the boys are born.. But boo whoo me I just really want to end this relationships I know that their is no way we can go our own directions.. We are bring 2 boys in this world with in this month... What should I do??