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Q: I fell for my mom's friends son, we call them family?
asked by: mylife93 on April 14th, 2009
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I met my mom's friend and her family, 2 years ago. We call them family, like aunty, uncle, cousin. I always looked at my so called cousin as a friend and nothing more, we would hang out sometimes with my whole family and go to family functions together. We were at dinner one sunday for my aunties birthday and he was sitting right next to me, like usual. He started talking about this girl that he sort of liked, usually i would say something stupid, but this time i felt myself getting jealous and i was wpndering why. The next couple of days i thought about that feeling i had and i figured out that i was completely in love with this guy. I felt so stupid. I don't know what to do because he's so close to my family, and everyone calls him my cousin. It's so hard to not like him though. What should I do?
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CoolGlassofH2O
replied on May 9th, 2009
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if hes your moms-friends son..you guys are not related. its ok to like him. maybe your mom and her friend feel so close like sisters thats why she calls them family. i was in the same situation when i was younger. consider it a special friendship you have with this guy, hes able to tell you things he wouldnt anyone else. if you trully like him let him know, but also include that you respect that hes got a girl and you.ll keep your distance. cause who else is he gonna run to if he needs advice or if things dont go well??

i fell for my best guy friend(which i dated for a while too lol), but he keeps his distance cause he knows im in a relationship and i do the same. but when we need advice we always turn to each other. im sure if we ever broke with our partners we'd get together and it wouldnt be aquard cause were such good friends.
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thoumas
replied on May 29th, 2009
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no offence, but you probably dont LOVE him but you like him. also if you arent related by blood then it doesnt matter you two can do what you want. does he even feel the same way. and your age can factor into things like this.
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nkhensani
replied on November 9th, 2009
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Is it advissible to date the son of my mom's best friend
I'm inlove with the son of my mom's friend; I first saw him 3 weeks ago and it was beautiful and then from there we started calling each other and last Saturday he asked me out on a date and it was so amazing, I like hi very much. But my problem is will I not compromise my mom's friends
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