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Q: I feel miserable

asked by: IrishDancer on August 9th, 2009

New User

Last year my closest guy friend was really flirty with me an I like him to. The problem was that my parents said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. So now I'm 16 but he got a new girlfriend about a month and a half ago and now she's all he talks about, how funny she is, how perfect she is, and he's right. I know her a little bit because we are both in the school band. She pretty much has everything I want. She sings amazingly, does ballet, tap, and jazz dance, plays the clarinet and the violin, and is dating him. He and I are still pretty good friends. We frequently greet each other with a playful "Hi Loser!" "Hi dork!" I don't want to tell him how I feel because I don't want to upset him or her. So what should I do? Is there anythin I can do?

Replies(5)

wendyrs

replied on August 9th, 2009

Supporter

You sure are in a tough spot. One thing you don't want to do is to ruin a good friendship. I would advise you to continue being his friend. Maybe get to know some other boys and enjoy your teen years. If the timing is right and it is meant to be, the two of you will be more than friends someday.

W0LF

replied on August 9th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

You can be a good friend and support him. or if you feel like you can't control how you feel, tell him honestly and give him space. Those are about the only choices that aren't going to bring this down like a house of cards. I know it seems impossible but we've all been where you are when we were your age. The love is intense and it burns when it's gone but you are going to crush on another guy within a few months and maybe this time things will come togather better. The world if full of boys. Focus on being the young woman you want to be and they will definately take notice of you.

lizzy_09

replied on August 10th, 2009

Experienced User

I quiet agree with WOLF. Stay friends with him. But if you feel that you can't handle the circumstances, then tell him that you need time for yourself. Don't worry, if your meant for each other, I'm sure life has a way of leading you back to each other.

ServiceU

replied on August 22nd, 2009

Supporter

i dont mean to be blunt but teens change their b/f and g/f like they change underwear. it maybe a day when he becomes single..........but you may find someone awesome at that time where your not even interested in him any more.
everything happens for a reason!!!!!

jckoo1b

replied on September 7th, 2009

New User

looseing your love

unthinkable tell the person how you feel no use in torturing your self wondering and wasting your life i know i lost my lover 6 years ago so keep your head up and go on with your life!!!!!!

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