Hi again Torture...I did respond to your other post, but seeing you have made it plain what I thought was the problem all along, I will have a go at it......
First, how was your sex life before marriage?...Was he gung ho for sex or more reserved?....Was he experienced in the game of love?...Is he possibly slightly inhibited or just kind of doesn't know his way around the true art of satisfying a woman?...
As far as your problem, you don't have one...He does...A woman was created to be loved...This is what makes the world go round...I guess I truly could not tell you how to stop loving and desiring a man...I have never stopped...It is as hot now as it was years ago....This would be my recipe for a good marriage...Take care...
Caroline