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I feel ignored and not loved

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I am married.I luv my husband a lot.I believe he too luvs me.I am a very romantic person while my husband is the the exact opposite.I express my feelings,emotions etc. to him but he never does that to me,which always creates arguements between us.His behaviour hurts me a lot.He never replies to my e-mails,e-cards,msgs etc.I feel so ignored and unimportant.He says he luvs me but doesnt know to express it.But i am just not able to accept and understand it and move on.I really crave for love and attention now... Sad ...Can sumone help me overcum it?
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replied November 14th, 2010
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Hi again Torture...I did respond to your other post, but seeing you have made it plain what I thought was the problem all along, I will have a go at it......

First, how was your sex life before marriage?...Was he gung ho for sex or more reserved?....Was he experienced in the game of love?...Is he possibly slightly inhibited or just kind of doesn't know his way around the true art of satisfying a woman?...

As far as your problem, you don't have one...He does...A woman was created to be loved...This is what makes the world go round...I guess I truly could not tell you how to stop loving and desiring a man...I have never stopped...It is as hot now as it was years ago....This would be my recipe for a good marriage...Take care...

Caroline
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replied November 15th, 2010
It's a difference the way to express his/her love with their partner. In my country, i always see the man, who is not romantic but they still love their wife so much. I think the man sometimes is hard to express his love and his feelings. I think so. And it's not problems about his love and I think you should teach him or accept him. Don,t worry, be happy!
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replied November 17th, 2010
Possibly you both just need to sit down ... maybe he is stressed at work?

If u sit down and tell him how you feel, see what he says, or sit down and ask him if anything is bothering him. You have to communicate in a relationship

Maybe surprise him show him your vixen side and dress up and surprise him one night ?


It may be the exitement that has fizzled out ?

Very Happy
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