i dont like when he compares kids to animals...

hi im 44 and happily married to a wonderful man.recently i misinterpret every innocent comment he makes as somehow questioning my perfection as wife and mother. he could say will i bring kids to school ? and i would think maybe he thinks i dont want to and i would always do it. i dont like when he compares kids to animals eg well emma you;re a little monkey!! every day speak. i dont like the image it conjures up.any aggressive or language that is violent i dont kike that either.after hearing an innocent comment i might be upset for an hour or so but my husband would always reassure me and im flying again.i think i have given words far too much power over me.i probably should accept them that they are only words that should be let go,the more i focus on this the worse it probably is.i feel perfectly healthy otherwise