me and my husband will go through spurts in our relationship some where we do amazing and are bestfriends and are so happy and then some are the most trying and hard times i can imagine. first of all in no way does it ever get physical, but we just fight alot he says he cant handle my nagging but i dont see it i dont know i am doing it i feel like in a relationship if something bothers me i should be able to voice my opinion but he says it is something new evryday that bothers me, i love him so much but i am a stay at home mom and i am pretty stressed, i go to him for a shoulder to lean on but he takes it as me attacking him and being unhappy with him, i have a trust issue with him he did cheat on me a while back and we are working thru it and then i just feel like he will make and break promises to me which doesnt help the trust issue. like we both promised eachother we wouldnt have a myspace or facebook but he had a secret facebook on the side and hid it from me like having a facebook was more important than me trusting him i dont know what to do anymore the fighting is getting tiring and he thinks we should have a break what do i do i dont think we should have a break i feel like if we want this to work we need to try not give up. please help me!