my boyfriend and i was dating for over a year.he cheated on me,stood me up on several important occations like b day,hid things from me saying i should trust him.i forgave him cause i really love him..recently he have been wanting to see my phone cause he seen me going through it.i didnt give it to him i told him he should trust me..we broke up i cried my eyes out nd tried to prove i wasnt.we went back out..we recently got into a big fight he took my phone nd look through it..now there are some things that would make someone think i cheated but really i have never..my bestfriend uses my phone nd text ppl from it because she doent have one.he also seen one from a guy that i was friends with nd flirted with me..he said thats why you didnt want me to see your phone.he was so mad told me he hate me nd to never tlk to him again.the next day he changed his number..he doesnt know them text wasnt from me now i look like a cheater.im so devasted cant get in contact at all..nd i know he will never tlk to me again.but he doesnt know the story..i feel like if onlyi didnt let my friend use my phone if only i didnt let the guy flirt with me..im more hurt cause although i dont feel like i did much wrong i took him back in eveything he did.nd he was so quick to leave me.what to do?
This boy sounds like a hypocrite. I honestly think you made a mistake at even keeping him in the first place, but that's only my opinion. Cheating men are never worth much, if anything. They're lying losers who are trying to play every girl they can. I can see why he got upset at your phone, but you had every right to be mad at him as well for what he did to you. See where I'm coming from? he sounds like a MAJOR hypocrite and no good. You know what you did and what you didn't do. you know you didn't cheat. That's all that matters.If he were a real man and truly loved you, he would believe you anyway. I wouldn't keep this man if I were you, but I cannot tell you what to do. Make your own decision, but make sure it's a wise one. Hope this helped.