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I Don't Know What To Do With My Life!

I really don't know but my boyfriend of 4years just told me he fell out off love with me and he acts different everything about him is different and im not ready to let go he asked me to marry him after we were together for 2 years.... now he tells me he has to find him self he's lost before he knew wat he wanted and now he's just confused but he also says he loves me..... it all hurts so much I can't eat drink or sleep and im going crazy. He told me he fell out off love with me because I argue to much be he was the reason I argued and his family didn't like me they wouldn't even get to know me........ but I know he's scared to fall back in love with me like he won't let me in and I see that ......but as for the answer to this question I think people do fall back in love it just takes time and you both have to want as bad if only one of you wants it then its not good enough......
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replied December 4th, 2010
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hi kirsty22,

Having letting go of someone you love who wants to be set free is always difficult. True love is about letting go when the one you love no longer wants to be with you. It doesn't mean they don't love you, just he opposite. Loving somone enough to realize you don't want them in your life for the rest of your life as a mate and allowing yourself the courage to tell them that dispite the pain it will cause is really a mature, responsible and loving person. You don't have to like your ex boyfriend decision, however, you do have to accept it. Perhaps, when you get older and he gets older and you have stopped arguing and mature, your relationship may take on a new direction, I wouldn't wait around for that to happen but on never knows what the future holds. For now, please let him be and work on yourself, love you the way you love him and watch what a beautiful person you will become from the inside out.

Good Luck,

Faded Rose
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