Before you even HAVE a child. Learn to spell! You DO NOT want your children growing up not knowing how to spell (trust me I can barely spell myself)
I can't really help you but go to your doctor and tell him to help you or you're going to do something for him not helping you! (my friend said she'd sue for malpractice lol but that's 'cuz he wouldn't tie her tubes at 18 after her first kid)