Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. We do not have sexual intercorse because he is a christian and it is a sin. But we do play around with each other. But when he plays with me down there I feel like I want to orgasm but then I feel the need to tell him to stop like its too much for me to handle. I really want to orgasm but I can seem to let myself do it. Can someone tell me if there is something wrong with me? Or tell me something I can do to help me? PLEASE?!!?
my simple advice is to tell him, before you start anything, "dont stop no matter how much i tell you to" he may feel bad when he doesnt listen and thinks hes doing something wrong, but thats gonna change after you explode. but if really need to stop, physically stop him from continuing (grab his hand, move it away, etc...)