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March 20th, 2008
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. We do not have sexual intercorse because he is a christian and it is a sin. But we do play around with each other. But when he plays with me down there Embarassed I feel like I want to orgasm but then I feel the need to tell him to stop like its too much for me to handle. I really want to orgasm but I can seem to let myself do it. Can someone tell me if there is something wrong with me? Or tell me something I can do to help me? PLEASE?!!?
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Maddie34
replied March 21st, 2008
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No it took me until having sex to actually orgasm. However, it wasn't the sex that made it possible.

Try masturbating. Get comfortable with yourself firstand find out what will push yourself over the edge. Once you figure that out then you can show your bf.

Its a mental thing. If you aren't comfortable with it yet then having an orgasm is going to be hard. Nothing is wrong with you. Smile
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Tylanas
replied March 21st, 2008
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Yeah, you need to orgasm from masturbation first, that way you know what the full process of build-up and climax feels like.
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showcase05
replied March 23rd, 2008
my simple advice is to tell him, before you start anything, "dont stop no matter how much i tell you to" he may feel bad when he doesnt listen and thinks hes doing something wrong, but thats gonna change after you explode. but if really need to stop, physically stop him from continuing (grab his hand, move it away, etc...)

just trying to help..
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