I am 21 years of age, and i have being sex with my partner, however, after i orgasm once, i doesnt feel turned on and want to have sex again. However, my partner wants to have sex all the time, and if when we continue having sex, i cant seem to orgasm again. I can only orgasm once. I tried faking but he knows. What you think i should do? Do you think i have a problem?
Hello and thanks for posting your medical question on E health forum.
Females have a inherent ability to have multiple orgasms unlike men. Lack of interest or inability to enjoy sexual intercourse could be due to factors like fatigue, Stress, Situations that turn you off during sex, or it could be due to inability of your partner to excite you.
Sex begins in the mind. A healthy and fresh mind without stress is important to have a enjoyable sex life. Identify the stressors in your day to day life and take steps to remove them. This will go a long way to help you.
Faking an orgasm is not the best way to address the current situation. Be open to new ideas and discuss your feelings and issues with your partner so that your relation can prosper. Proper arousal with adequate foreplay, a uninhibited sexual behavior, changing sexual positions and places other than the bedroom, using creativity in and out of the bedroom will spice up your sex lives and change the current monotonous sex life.
You might consider consulting your physician or a sexologist who can discuss these issues in detail and guide you accordingly.
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