hi, i had a bf who forced me to use sex. everytime he put it in me i would move and crawl in a ball like a baby it hurt a little bit he mostly put his finger in there or i dont even remember because i blocked what happened but this happened at 10am i went home and showered and at 10pm when i peed i saw a dot of blood in my red underwear and im not sure if im a virgin or not if my parents find out im not a virgin they will kill me and i feel like i want to commit suicide because i regret it alot can you please help me
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The rupture of hymen and loss of virginity can only be confirmed after careful examination done by a gynecologist. The spot/dot of blood that you saw could be due to possibility of internal injury. The bleeding from hymen rupture usually lasts a few hours and is mild. Consider visiting your doctor/gynecologist for further assistance. If you intend to remain sexually active, consider visiting your gynecologist to get started on suitable regular birth control measures to be protected (after your periods). Be regular with birth control use as instructed. Avoid having unprotected sexual contact.
If there was semen or pre-cum that came in contact with vagina, then consider taking emergency contraceptive within 48 hours of the unprotected sexual contact to prevent pregnancy.
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