Hi everyone...I am into a relationship from last 3 years which is very sweet and loving. I really care for my girlfriend and she also loves me like anything else in this world. We both had good times with each other, but now I am in different condition and I am facing problems because of delay in our marriage (some financial and family issues) but I promised her and myself that I will only marry with her in any condition. I am very protective and possessive about her she knows this from start of our relation I never like that she is doing any job because of man dominating society in my country where people think girls are only for sex and I also mentioned my reservations about her job, at that time she told me when we will marry I will left my job but every time I have got fear in my heart that she will not able to fulfill her commitment due to her desperation in making her career. I want to see her as a house wife. She was terminated from her job due to financial crunch in her company after that I told her that don’t search any job just stay at home and she agreed but after 6 to 7 month she again starts to apply for jobs and make my fear real true I threat her that if you will go for job then I will break our relation she is ok with that she don’t have any regret to break this relation. For her career is more important than our relation she takes my love as granted. I have become very possessive and abusive because I don’t want to leave her and this creates problems between us. I yells and abuse at times because I was very frustrated by her attitude and her behavior. I am really afraid to lose her. I don’t like her wearing revealing clothes in this country where people think girls are only for sex. I believe that she wont do anything that will hurt me but she never understands me I told her this is not the western culture society where women have the freedom. I sound immature, but I really love her and I value her. Please, its a request if you can help me.