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I am very confused!

I am 26 years old and I never had a long term relationship..It is very hard for me to find a guy and when I meet them, none of the dates took longer than 2 or 3 sessions! I am very sad and depressed about the situation. I am wondering what do I do wrong and how I can get help?
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replied March 27th, 2009
Happiness is waiting
It is hard for many people to establish long term relationships for one reason or another. Have you been hurt in the past? The important thing to remember is that it is not your fault. I believe that their is one person out there waiting for all of us. If we find that person at 20, or 26, or even later, it dosnt matter because eventually we will find that person. So keep doing your thing, keep dating and eventually when you find the right person you will know it.
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replied April 8th, 2009
I don't believe that there is one person out there waiting for all of us, there are multiple candidates for most people. There's no destiny, just chaos, luck and your own decisions.

For some people, a sexual relationship is mission impossible: they're too ugly, are mutilated or have other severe disadvantages. But you don't seem to fall into that category.

Doesn't sound like you should give up. It's OK to take the initiative yourself and date online, send messages to men you're genuinely interested in.
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replied April 8th, 2009
where do u find the guys?
now a days it's different out there. where do u go to make ur lucky choices? that could be the problem.i believe that today theres someone for someone all the time. i could be wrong.i speak for myself cause i've never really been alone. but maybe ur searching in the wrong areas. example, if ur looking for ur love at a bar or club, chances are ur going to find duds. it's not u though, dont ever think. in order to find the right person u have to feel confident about urself. when a guy senses low self esteem it kinda pushes them away. good luck!
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replied May 3rd, 2009
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your no different than anyone else. you have to pick the needle out of the hay stack.

make sure you don't have sex with guys fast because some guys take that as your easy and theres no feelings there.

if a guy doesn't call you back, that means hes not the one for you.

guys can be very picky about women & will walk away for the slightest turnoff.
i met a lot of nice guys on a hot line when i was going through my dry spell.
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