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Im a 29 year old female and I am always horny.. I always want sex and if i dont get any.. I have to masturbate. I have many toys and i masturbate about 4 to 5 times a day. I cant stop touching myself and pinching my nipples. Its been about a year now since my sexual drive has increased. Maybe im at my peak? i have a boyfriend that isnt always there to help Sad am i weird? or over sexual? i cant stop thinking about sex. My body yearns for it. Whether it be with a girl or a guy i want it now. I always say im a man trapped in a womens body because i know men are always horny. lol. thanks for your help!
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replied May 23rd, 2012
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Although desire for sex is healthy and normal, and masturbation even once or twice a day is fine, four or five times a day is a bit excessive.

It sounds like you became hypersexual at some stage. What changed a year ago? Although the cause for this cannot always be determined, the following is thought to contribute to it:

Bipolar disorder
OCD
Mind altering medicines and diseases
Drugs

I suggest you see your doctor and make sure everything is ok. This may be just normal for you, but it is better to make sure it is not a sign of something else.

Please stay safe, always!
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replied May 23rd, 2012
hmm.. nothing changed a year ago. And im not bipolar i dont do drugs.. never have. i dont take any medication whatsoever.. and im not OCD.. so maybe i should go see a doctor with the insurance i dont have. Maybe masturbating 4 or 5 times was a little much.. its probably 3.. morning noon and night. Im a woman, im horny a lot.. maybe i am just deprived from having sex. lol.
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replied March 11th, 2013
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I'd have gone with kristi's list, but one to check as well is

Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS)

This can cause an increase in libido, or a decrease - depends on the woman.

Also causes weigh gain, and fertility issues.
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replied April 6th, 2014
i'm same thing having masturbating more 6 times but i going to have some sport like run & be active helping people & try forget about sex & horny now i feel good sometime 1 time on the 2 week just don't let ur self free & someone talking about sex anymore ok
if that is don't working
i have other thing to help u Smile
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replied May 30th, 2013
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I am 24 and the same way - give it to me day night breakfast lunch and dinner - always have the urge - is it affecting your relationship? Is it affecting your concentration or work - if so then there may be a problem - but I mean I don't see it as a problem just a craving as long as you aren't cheating or anything like that - tell your bf to give it up more!!!!
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replied June 8th, 2013
Im 22 my girlfriend is 23. I always feel bad during sex as it doesn't take long for her, but for me... I seem to take forever and its always me who want sex... everyday anytime of day and we have sex ALOT. We have been trying new things but I still can't orgasm Sad I cum but not that big O ... I masterbate all the time, whenever I have the time... she said I should get my hormone levels checked. Is there anything else that could cause constant arousal? Im not Bi Polar, OCD, or do drugs but I am on medication for Epilepsy. . . Helppp meee
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replied June 8th, 2013
Always wanting sex too
I am 33 my husband thinks I am a sex freak I am always wanting sex. I really think it is because I never have a good orgasm and I get irrated because he won't try different position I also google tantric sex hoping it will help, if not oh well. I have also considered cheating because doesn't want sex as much as I do. Good luck
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replied March 10th, 2014
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my wife and I used tantra in lovemaking for years. We loved it.
When making love any man should make sure his wife has an orgasm before he does. not to do so is being selfish.
My wife before she was struck with Alzheimers wanted to make love all the time. So did I> for 5 years we made loves 4 or 5 timesevery DAY. In all our time together we never had a 'quickie"> We made love for an hour or more each and every time.
We loved the scissor position. This is a comfortable position for both.
THe majority of women do not orgasm with just penetration. The vaginal area need gentle pleasuring while connected together.
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replied June 11th, 2013
Feeling the same way
I just turned 26 and ever since I was 14 I have been horny ALL THE time! I can't lie I get a lot of sex but it seems like its never enough! If I don't have sex I will masturbate honestly I masturbate every day, even if my boyfriend and I have just finished having sex (he's so damn sexy, well endowed and pleases me VERY much) I wait until he goes to sleep and masturbate again!! Seriously is this normal? I don't take medication and im not diagnosed with anything, the only thing I can truthfully say is I'm "420 friendly".
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replied July 1st, 2013
Need advice please.
I am 25, my boyfriend is 35. We have been together for 2 years. During the first year of our relationship we had sex 3-4 times a day. (Not joking either) now il be lucky if we have sex 2-3 times a week. It takes me longer than him to orgasm but he never really waits for me, he just asks did u come at the end when its over. i love him so much and i am so attracted to him.I have had several serious long term relationships and I have never been so horny and wanted sex all the time.
My boyfriend does not masterbate he thinks it's childish and says he is not a teenaged anymore. He barely thinks about sex. He also hates giving me oral. How can I spice up our sex life again or am I just doomed for a sex life with no orgasm. Someone has suggested that because he doesn't make me come it leaves me hornier and unsatisfied, therefore wanting more sex. Please help!
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replied July 1st, 2013
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Dealing with your sexual urges and dissatisfaction is easy. Masturbate.just because he has some warped concept of what masturbation is and what childish means, does not mean you have to stop dealing with your urges in the safest and healthiest way there is.

It does however not resolve your problems with him as a sexual partner. You should be discussing this with him. If you do not sort this out, you will begin to resent him and hate sex. So do this soon.

Best of luck!
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replied August 10th, 2013
I'm Horney & Masterbate 24/7! What's wrong with me???
I am a 35 year old female and I've always since I realized what sexual urges are and what being horney is I have been horney all day every day. I masterbate some days 25-30 times a day. I've never done any drugs at all in my life. I am a child psychologist so I've been thru intensive psychological screenings and was never diagnosed with anything except OCD. I do take medication for underactive thyroid,asthma,acid reflux,allergies,chemotherapy pills,radation pills,iron,calcium,pain medication for my cancer and I broke my foot and leg in 7 places and had to have surgery for it and still have problems with it so I have pain medication for it too,I also take reflan(its an antiinflammatory),I take migraine meds,I take skelaxin which is a muscle relaxer and I take a strong vitamin given to me by my oncologist. But I've been this way since I was about 18 and I only started medications in the past 4 years except for the thyroid meds I started when I was 23. In my relationships I always had sex at least 6 times a day with maybe doing oral to the guy at least 3 times a day. I've been with my husband 7 years married for 5 of that. In the beginning like the first 3 to 3 1/2 years we had an awesome sex life but then it went from out of this world to non existence so its gotten even worse for me now. I mean in other relationships when I had a Healthy Great Sex Life I still was horney all day long and masterbating about 8-10 times a day while havin sex about 20-25 times a day giving oral about 8-10 times a day and receiving oral about 8-10 but now since my husband hardly ever has sex with me,I'm lucky if I get sex once every 6 mths sp I have to admit I have cheated with my 2 best friends,yes male,no not at the same time. The first time I cheated was with my best friend of 9years,we had messed around for about 3 years before when iwas single,he is married and still married,we ran into each other at a bar when i was out with my girlfriends and one thing led to another and so it happened but didnt last but about 3 months because i still loved him lots and couldnt emotionally handle itcause i love my husband but i loved ths guy too so it led me to a very confused area in my life so I just had to end it then the other guy I cheated with was my best friend for 10 years & we were just hanging out watching movies cutting up laughing drinking and a sex scence came on the movie and my best friend said that I was hotter than the actress on the movie and that led to me saying no I'm not and we had been swimming that day so I had my bathing suit on and so I took my cover up off and playingly was modeling and he said it again that my body was perfect and I was so smoking hot that he could eat me up and he pulled me down into his lap and kissed me and so that started an 8 month affair but then I broke it off cause of several different reasons,one being I contiplated leaving my husband for him cause I was falling in love so I thought and he told me the same then one nite he was out with out me and he got drunk and hit on one of my best girl friends so it literally broke my heart and it ended our friendship then occasionally I have went back to my best friend that I first cheated with but just for sex when I've been without it for 6 or more months. I also watch about 12-15 hours of porn,while we r sitting in the living room watching tv,I will cover myself with a blanket and put my knees up so my husband can't see what I'm doing and I sneak to watch porn on my cell phone and masterbate. I sneak and watch porn when we r in the car on my cellphone,sometimes I will sit in the car while my husband goes into dr office or grocery store so I can watch porn and masterbate in the car,sometimes I even have the windows rolled down if its cool enough to not have to run the air. I have even waited for my husband to go to sleep so I can sneak my phone into bed to watch porn and masterbate. I get so horney and wanting sexual experiences sometimes so bad that I will even get suckers or popsicles to lick and suck to simulate oral sex cause I just so desperately need it. I don't know what the hell is my husbands problem why he would have sex with me. And no before u say it he isn't cheating cause for the past 2 years we are with each other 24 hours a day 7 days a week and for by chance we aren't together then its me gone and him home with the kids and before u say its because my appearance changed,I look the same as I did when I was 18 except I'm probably 10 lbs lighter. I weighed 110 when I graduated high school and now I'm about 100 maybe 102. Everyone I know or meet says I look 18/19. And when I show my picture from high school everyone I know or keet says I habent changed not one bit. Now my husband has changed,he's gained probably 35/40 lbs at least compared to what he was 7 yrs ago when met we met. And he is hateful,moody and not a good person anymore. I have wanted to get a divorce and asked him for a divorce on many many occasions but he claims he will change but hasn't yet. And I haven't left cause I'm scared to with my cancer to be on my own but I'm so damn tired of being horney constantly and Yes I have been like this since I was 18/19 yrs old but in other relationships I didn't have to masturbate as much and I didn't have to watch porn as much. I feel like I'm a sex addict. I don't know what's wrong with me. Someone help!!! Tel me what's wrong with me.
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replied August 10th, 2013
I'm Horney & Masterbate 24/7! What's wrong with me???
I am a 35 year old female and I've always since I realized what sexual urges are and what being horney is I have been horney all day every day. I masterbate some days 25-30 times a day. I've never done any drugs at all in my life. I am a child psychologist so I've been thru intensive psychological screenings and was never diagnosed with anything except OCD. I do take medication for underactive thyroid,asthma,acid reflux,allergies,chemotherapy pills,radation pills,iron,calcium,pain medication for my cancer and I broke my foot and leg in 7 places and had to have surgery for it and still have problems with it so I have pain medication for it too,I also take reflan(its an antiinflammatory),I take migraine meds,I take skelaxin which is a muscle relaxer and I take a strong vitamin given to me by my oncologist. But I've been this way since I was about 18 and I only started medications in the past 4 years except for the thyroid meds I started when I was 23. In my relationships I always had sex at least 6 times a day with maybe doing oral to the guy at least 3 times a day. I've been with my husband 7 years married for 5 of that. In the beginning like the first 3 to 3 1/2 years we had an awesome sex life but then it went from out of this world to non existence so its gotten even worse for me now. I mean in other relationships when I had a Healthy Great Sex Life I still was horney all day long and masterbating about 8-10 times a day while havin sex about 20-25 times a day giving oral about 8-10 times a day and receiving oral about 8-10 but now since my husband hardly ever has sex with me,I'm lucky if I get sex once every 6 mths sp I have to admit I have cheated with my 2 best friends,yes male,no not at the same time. The first time I cheated was with my best friend of 9years,we had messed around for about 3 years before when iwas single,he is married and still married,we ran into each other at a bar when i was out with my girlfriends and one thing led to another and so it happened but didnt last but about 3 months because i still loved him lots and couldnt emotionally handle itcause i love my husband but i loved ths guy too so it led me to a very confused area in my life so I just had to end it then the other guy I cheated with was my best friend for 10 years & we were just hanging out watching movies cutting up laughing drinking and a sex scence came on the movie and my best friend said that I was hotter than the actress on the movie and that led to me saying no I'm not and we had been swimming that day so I had my bathing suit on and so I took my cover up off and playingly was modeling and he said it again that my body was perfect and I was so smoking hot that he could eat me up and he pulled me down into his lap and kissed me and so that started an 8 month affair but then I broke it off cause of several different reasons,one being I contiplated leaving my husband for him cause I was falling in love so I thought and he told me the same then one nite he was out with out me and he got drunk and hit on one of my best girl friends so it literally broke my heart and it ended our friendship then occasionally I have went back to my best friend that I first cheated with but just for sex when I've been without it for 6 or more months. I also watch about 12-15 hours of porn,while we r sitting in the living room watching tv,I will cover myself with a blanket and put my knees up so my husband can't see what I'm doing and I sneak to watch porn on my cell phone and masterbate. I sneak and watch porn when we r in the car on my cellphone,sometimes I will sit in the car while my husband goes into dr office or grocery store so I can watch porn and masterbate in the car,sometimes I even have the windows rolled down if its cool enough to not have to run the air. I have even waited for my husband to go to sleep so I can sneak my phone into bed to watch porn and masterbate. I get so horney and wanting sexual experiences sometimes so bad that I will even get suckers or popsicles to lick and suck to simulate oral sex cause I just so desperately need it. I don't know what the hell is my husbands problem why he would have sex with me. And no before u say it he isn't cheating cause for the past 2 years we are with each other 24 hours a day 7 days a week and for by chance we aren't together then its me gone and him home with the kids and before u say its because my appearance changed,I look the same as I did when I was 18 except I'm probably 10 lbs lighter. I weighed 110 when I graduated high school and now I'm about 100 maybe 102. Everyone I know or meet says I look 18/19. And when I show my picture from high school everyone I know or keet says I habent changed not one bit. Now my husband has changed,he's gained probably 35/40 lbs at least compared to what he was 7 yrs ago when met we met. And he is hateful,moody and not a good person anymore. I have wanted to get a divorce and asked him for a divorce on many many occasions but he claims he will change but hasn't yet. And I haven't left cause I'm scared to with my cancer to be on my own but I'm so damn tired of being horney constantly and Yes I have been like this since I was 18/19 yrs old but in other relationships I didn't have to masturbate as much and I didn't have to watch porn as much. I feel like I'm a sex addict. I don't know what's wrong with me. Someone help!!! Tel me what's wrong with me.
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replied February 27th, 2014
I am 23 years old and I am horny all the time. Sometimes I will masturbate 2 - 3 times a day. My body aches for stimulation. I thought maybe its because im not getting enough sex. But how much is enough? Am I perverted?
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replied March 9th, 2014
horny wives
to all the husbands that don,t satify there wives wake the hell up having a horny wife is the best thing a man can wish for I,ve got one and she can have it anytime anywhere I love her and love having sex and we are 52 so don,t give me the crap I,m to old
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replied March 9th, 2014
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Waxedcien,
Hey-- 52 year old 70 and totally agree with you ..
Age is no excuse. But people start using that as the reason they have lost interest -- they should keep their Testosterone levels checked yearly..
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replied April 7th, 2014
I'm a 33 year old female and I feel the same way with the yearning for sex 24-7. I've felt like this since I was 15. I have no medical/mental issues and I don't do any drugs. I always thought that maybe after having kids, I would slow down. But 3 kids later, I'm still always horny. I masturbate 6 times a day. My husband has a low sex drive and therefore I sometimes go weeks without having sex. He's also always tired (he works 13 hours a day 7 days/week,so I understand). But sometimes I feel as if he's being selfish because, although I understand he's tired and works hard for our family, he needs to understand that I'm alive and horny. He's also younger than me. I think I will feel better if we had sex at least twice a week. I sometimes feel as if I'm not good enough for him. Its making feel a little depressed to know that if this is my life now, how would it be 10, 15, or 20 years from now? Something's gotta give!
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replied April 7th, 2014
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Vicky
I read your post and you should not feel bad for your need of sex in your marriage.. Always being tired is not a reason for the husband not to spend time having intimacy with his wife.. Even if he is a young man , he could be low on Testosterone which will cause a man to feel tired and have a weak sex drive .. Get him checked up.. Intimacy is a must for the marriage in order for it to last over time.. Lack of intimacy in the marriage , can also be a sign of having passion for other things , like male masturbation or even possible affairs.. You need to have a very serious discussion with him and fine out what is the issues for his lack of sexual contact with you .. I have been married for 50 years and weither you believe or not we still have sex at least twice a week sometimes more -- our marriage has become better over the years and it is because of the intimacy we share with each other .. Got to keep the passion for one another .. the next 10 to 15 years can be very difficult if you do not get him turn around .. Seek Dr's help if needed , don't give up!!! My thoughts only!!
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replied April 9th, 2014
I have been the same way but just for a few day now and I haven't sleeper I'm a mom of mom of 3 and the only time I have to my self is when there sleeping but I play and play with my self and even finish but can't stop my husband can't keep up I played so rogh yesterday I was bleeding I hope it don't last long and that we just need one really good I mean goooood scru
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replied April 9th, 2014
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Sounds like you are needing your husband to be more intimate and be involved with you sexually .. That is perfectly understandable.. The rough masturbation might be bad for you to do , especially if your are bleeding afterwards.. I will repeat what I said in the above post , your husband needs to get his Testosterone levels checked and see if this could be the cause of his desire issue.. It would not hurt for him to read some info on making love to his wife.. He should read the book " She Comes First" ..
My thoughts only..
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replied May 14th, 2014
Alot of us are in the same situation. Its very difficult, lonely and frustrating!
I try and pray alot, read, listen tousic, work out and so forth etc.. Some people will say see a dr. or a theraist but I dont always agree with some of the methodologies and concepts of traditonall practices and medicine.
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