they do this sort of thing? why in the world would anyone want this done? i dont get it? either you're a virgin or not....and having a hymen isn't really any proof of being a virgin either considering many girls loose theirs during childhood long before having sex

also..not all virgins bleed during their first sexual experience...so...i'm trying to understand why you would want this done

I live in culture don't understand this kind of things, if I even tried to tell my family I will be killed, so PLZ stop trying to understand why I need this surgery just respect how we live in different cultures with different religions & HELP ME WITH FINDING CLINCS IN BAHRAIN & UAE THAT THEY DO SUCH SURGERY. Thanks

Sweetie, I could not find anyone who could help you in Bahrain or UAE. Most women travel abroad from there to get the surgery done. I do know that if you get it done, you will need to do it at least six weeks before the wedding, as you will need time to heal. I will continue looking for some kind of information for you.

I've searched the net and I can't find a center in UAE or Bahrain and since I do not know what surrounds these two, honestly I do not know what other locations to search.

What you are seeking can be done but it appears that you will need to travel outside of your location for consultation / surgery. Would you be able to travel?

Are you able to decline marriage without any harm being done to you or your family?

Not all original virgins will bleed when they first have intercourse. So even if you were able to re-virginize yourself, does not guarantee you will bleed.

Here's a thought...if you don't get this procedure in time and go ahead and get married...would it work if you had blood drawn and kept in a vial and once you have sex...put a little on the bedsheets??? Make sure it is fresh as can be. I'm not saying to do that, it's just a thought I had...

I do know that your culture desires a virgin for marriage but beyond that, I know very little about their values.

Which brings me to this...it's unfair that it is known when most women are not virgins however how does a woman know that her soon to be husband is also a virgin...

By the way...some women are seeking a Virgin Certificate from their GYN to show proof that they are indeed a virgin. Could you get a dr to provide you one of these certificates even though you are not? May request more $$ to provide. Just another thought of mine.

~Zig

i was not trying to insult you..that wasn't my intention I guess I was just wondering why having an intact hymen and the bleeding thing was so important considering many virgins do not have intact hymens and dont bleed during their first intercourse experience...so that isn't exactly "proof" that you are or are not a virgin still...i understand your culture is different you answered my question about why you would want this done

I thank you all for ur replies & for understanding, I am searching the net since days & I found clincs in lebanon but I am still searching to find in UAE & Bahrain, I didnt find yet.

I know not all virgins bleed, even me the 1st time I had intercourse I didnt bleed & I didnt feel pain at all, I was shocked I didnt expect my hymen to be broken, BUT still i want to do the surgery even if i didnt bleed after doing the surgey at lease the one who will marry me he wont feel that my hymen is broken & i am open & it is easy for him to enter his (Pen--)

I stayed with my Partner for 7 years I wouldnt expect he will be an problem, cheat on me & leave me AFTER ALL THOSE YEARS

Ok hun, all I managed to find was that most girls/women with your situation go to Egypt or Africa to have their hymenoplasties done. The cost is around $1200 US dollars (I am unsure of how much that amount is if you use your currency). From the information I have collected, the doctor who performs the procedure sews your hymen back up, but before doing so, inserts a gelatin capsule containing "fake blood" so that when you are penetrated, the capsule breaks, giving you the illusion of virginity. I am unsure of your religion/culture but I do have one question...I have heard that if you are Muslim, you can get married as non-virgin as long as you let your prospective husband know...is this true? I have heard both ways, that no it is not true and that yes it is. And if it is true, would your husband just deny you if you told him and that be the end of it, or would you be a victim of an "honor killing"? I am not asking these questions to be rude or intrusive, I am very curious, that is all.

So sorry to hear about your situation.
You have 2 options:
1- Call every gynecologist around you and ask if they do this procedure (while remaining anonymous). Any gynecologist can do it, it is a pretty straight forward procedure. Someone should be doing it in Dubai per se.
2- If you are currently dating your soon to be husband and you KNOW he loves you, tell him that your ex raped you (he is a jerk anyway), and that you couldnt tell anyone because you did not wanna ruin your reputation... I think this requires some acting skills, he will look past your situation, I am sure...

thanks from ALL
i asked from indian hospital and they say to me :
we can do it ?
but the cost of that surgery and coming and going to there
is so expensive for me(approximate is 3000$) and i have know suitor ,
i dont know , i become nervous ,
plz help me.

Tala honey , i have the same problem , and bahrain is the only option for me .
i would be killed if anyone knows .. and i have to get my virginity back .\
I started to believe the fact that its over for me , and i think my only solution was not to love or marry anyone , so no one knows my secret that might kill me which is that i lost my virginity !

Dear
Do never try to tell your future husband that you were raped, you will still be considered as guilty, i'm living in KSA for a long time now and i know men's mentality in the GCC. To be honest with you, once i fell in love with my best friend, we were soooooo deep in love but we decided to save ourselves till we get married, one day my gurl told me that she's not a virgin and that she lost it long ago in a passionate moment with her ex BF, and told me that she only had sex once in her lifetime, first i acted like if we truely love each other so that piece of tissue is not a big deal for me, but i think i was wrong. I withdrew from our relationship after a month of telling me this because thoughts never stoped forming in my mind and it really drove me crazy. I still feel the guilt for hurting her but it gave me peace of mind. You will find many clincs doing this plastic surgery in Egypt and Sudan, surely there will be in Bahrain and UAE but maybe you will find some difficulty locating one. Do not think that you will find any official advertisement because these operations are considered "illegal".
breaking the hymnen even when doing sport, during an accident or even by rape is very controversial in the GCC.
I understand what kind of dilemma you are in and I am sorry for not being more helpfull.

I have the same problem and I live in Egypt and I hear that alot of doctors do this kind of surgery here,but i dont know anyone actully who makes it...if anyone knows a doctor in Egypt who does this surgery pls send me his contact information ..

Men are so gullible, they wouldn't know the difference between menstrual blood and any other type of blood so when it comes time to have sex, add a few drops on the sheet and voila! Trust me, he will never know...

Dear all, men can never figure out if you are virgin or not especialy in the middle east as they hasnt got the previouse experience of opening a virgin girl. Second, to be on safe side... let me tell you this clearly, when a women is not willing to have sex (horney), even if she is not virgin, she would be dry as it would be difficult for a man to enter. Third, make sure your wedding night would be on your last days of your period so that you bleed. Hope this would help.

Tala, I have been searching for you too. I didn't even know they did this kind of surgery. The only thing I was able to find was some information about hospitals in India that do this surgery. Apparently it is very common there and any of their hospitals do this. I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for. I understand how important this is for you.

tala its been a while since we have heard from you. any news on this? did u end up finding a doctor to do the procedure for u?

hey,

i know it is hard. i have the same problem as you gurls. the most important thing is that you must know that you are not alone. i got the surgery done recently.. but in lebanon. it costs 1300 $ so if you can fly to lebanon then.. you can easily get it done here.. and dont be afraid. each problem has gota solution

girls i know i shouldnt be saying this buttttttttt

you can take contraceptive pills and what they do is stop ur period for a while and then wen u get to the time where you shouldnt take the pills (once a month) ur period will come... and so book your wedding on that day (just look at the pill's cycle) and then clean urself up and quickly allow him to have sex with you and dont be horny so your vagina can remain small and then your period will go on his penis.. let him do u for a long time
then you will bleeed bcus of ur periods


good luck girls... sorry to hear this.. but im getting my hymen repaired soon... i never had sex but i feel its not there! maybe its a loose one.. and i really want mine to bleed litres

good luck girlsssssssssssssssssss

i feel ur pain

mwa

Can some advise me the location where can they can do this operation in Lebanaon or Egypt?