HUSBANDS AND EX GIRLFRIENDS Posted: 05-08-08 01:34am
ok so my husband and i have been together
for a year and married 7 months. we have a
3 month old daughter and are happy but his
pysh co ex girlfriend wont leaV us alone.
she is always e-mailing him and
messangeing us trying to break us up and
start crap how do you get someone that
wont give up to leave you alone.. i mean
when they were to gether he kicked her out
a number of times and he evenmoved to fl
to get away from her and she huntted him
down.. she wont give up and i dunno whzat
to do.. can anyone help?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-08-08 09:31am
Can you say restraining order? He needs to
start recording the tmie she calls, shows
up somewhere or e-mails him. All he needs
is to document it to show proof to the
judge and she will have to stop.
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Re: HUSBANDS AND EX GIRLFRIENDS Posted: 05-08-08 16:11pm
angelinhiseyes2007
wrote:
ok so my husband and i have
been together for a year and married 7
months. we have a 3 month old daughter and
are happy but his pysh co ex girlfriend
wont leaV us alone. she is always
e-mailing him and messangeing us trying
to break us up and start crap how do you
get someone that wont give up to leave you
alone.. i mean when they were to gether he
kicked her out a number of times and he
evenmoved to fl to get away from her and
she huntted him down.. she wont give up
and i dunno whzat to do.. can anyone
help?
You say
Quote:
when they were
to gether he kicked her out a number of
times
Which also implies he kept letting her
come back 'a number of times'. If he gets
a restraining order, changes his email
address, changes your phone number - then
how could she contact you at all? These
last two are really easy to do and will
take a lot of her steam out.
Also, she would not continue to
write/call/contact him if he wasn't being
receptive to this. Does he contact her at
all? He shouldn't! When she calls, he
needs to say, "Don't call here again!" and
hang up. When she sends him an email, he
needs to delete it and not write back.
When she texts him, he needs to delete
that to.
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angelinhiseyes2007
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Posted: 05-09-08 00:06am
she doesnt call here she used to call his
moms house when we lived there she doesnt
have a number to get in touch with us now
but she e-mails him she messaged him on
his until i blocked her then she started
messaging me b!**h!ng me out because she
thinks im tring to change him.. i blocked
her on mine now she is messaging me on and
apps thing on my myspace and i cant block
her on that so im kinda screwed.. she is
trying to get on were he works and is
trying to convince me that he has an STD
even though iknow he doesnt we went and
got tested before we got pregnant and if
he did and i didnt know it our daughter
would have been born with it so i dont
know who she thinks she is fooling.. and
another thing i think that its sad that we
are the same age or well there about
seeing as how her birthday is in sep and
mine is tommorrow yet she is so high
school you know the girls that try to
start stuff and get and echo trip over
agravating other people..
thank you girls so much for your words of
wisdom
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-09-08 06:50am
I agree with Ingi. As long as you ignore
her she should get the picture. Myspace, i
think you can message Tom and tell him you
are being harassed and he will put a stop
to it. I was pretty sure you could block
pepole on there. . . Unless she continues
to create a new sn but then i'm sure he
could block her IP or something.
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angelinhiseyes2007
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Posted: 05-12-08 19:14pm
i can block her except on the application
that my friends nd i have she has it as
well and gets me on it..
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angelinhiseyes2007
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Posted: 05-12-08 19:16pm
i can block her except on the application
that my friends nd i have she has it as
well and gets me on it..
