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Husband wants a threesome


I have been married for 4 months im 27 and my husband is 23. I have onl been w a hand full of ppl but he has a long history, recentl he told me he wants a 3 sum i dnt knw where it came from or why, but i have never one something like this before...yea i sometimes watch females n get aroused i am not gunna lie...but the thought of nother woman having sex w my husband or pleasing him in a wa i cant i dnt knw if i cld handle that. I wanna work on our relationship but im afraid he isbored w our sex life n needs some spicing up. I wanna knw how i shld proceed this and if ne1 thinks its anoption i did tell him just to c wat hed say that if i give him a 3 sum w sum girl i wanna 3 sum w anothr guy and he said find the guy hell find the girl NOT WAT I WANTED TO HEAR LOL, please help me
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replied June 4th, 2010
ive seen this before on maury: maybe ur husband wants to expand his sex life or is wanting inside fantasies to come to life. now some women are stengy, and dont want anyone (or anything) having sex with their husband. just tell him how u feel, and if he gets mad or upset, dont worry. he'll probably get over it and realize that the only sex partner he needs is you! Smile
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replied June 4th, 2010
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If this is something you are not comfortable with, don't do it. Just calmly talk with your husband about your feelings on this subject. If he gets mad, he will eventually get over it. Men have different sex drives then us women do LOL so maybe suggest watching porn with him instead of a physical threesome.
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replied June 4th, 2010
cimtrbl2 wrote:
If this is something you are not comfortable with, don't do it. Just calmly talk with your husband about your feelings on this subject. If he gets mad, he will eventually get over it. Men have different sex drives then us women do LOL so maybe suggest watching porn with him instead of a physical threesome.



thatll work too! Smile
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replied June 4th, 2010
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muffinkiller wrote:
cimtrbl2 wrote:
If this is something you are not comfortable with, don't do it. Just calmly talk with your husband about your feelings on this subject. If he gets mad, he will eventually get over it. Men have different sex drives then us women do LOL so maybe suggest watching porn with him instead of a physical threesome.



thatll work too! Smile
Yup Yup lol there's nothing wrong with helping your mate with their fantasies BUT if you are uncomfortable, porn is ALWAYS an opion hahaha giggle
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replied June 4th, 2010
thanks all i mean i am kinda curious also but i just dnt knw if I want anothr woman sleepn whim if its all about us n he just watchs MAB but idk i knw i cnt handle him gettn freak w her n front of me
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replied November 28th, 2010
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It's not for everyone. You have to have a strong relationship, my personal opinion is that the third person should not be a friend etc. Having said that, I have been the second man in a mmf with a married couple and the sex was utterly incredible!! Nothing like feeling and seeing a woman get massive amounts of pleasure with hands, and other things all over the place. I stopped becuase I felt the woman was developing feelings for me, and did not want to be the cause of a divorce. However, my current wife and I are discussing it at the moment (mmf) but again, it will be with someone we don't know maybe at a swing club. Also had a mff, unless the girls are bi that does not really work - when they are though it's an amazing experience.
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