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my husband takes no initiative for sex,but when I starts it he is normal to sex.but if I didn't take initiativefor a monthwe won't have it.he says he don't want a feelfor that.but during sex he is very much enjoying it and have orgasm.why this nature now. heis 55now and 'm 45
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replied August 13th, 2010
Did you try to ask him ? what his answer to that ? I guess you need to change the way you look. May be more sexy look. Good luck !
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replied September 17th, 2010
Im a guy, but here is something to think about.

Has your sex life always been good together? Or did it start off a bit shaky?

The reason I ask comes from personal experiance, my wife and I have an absolutly fantastic sex life together nowdays, but only due to me hanging in there, and my wife putting in a hell of a lot of effort!

The first few years of our sex lives was terrible, and a part of that was constant sexual rejection on my initiation, this went on for years, and in a nutshell, has left me very wery, and to be honest, still absoutly terrified to initiate sex.

Maybe this is something from a former partner?

Nowdays my wife and i talk openly about the issue, and all sexual issues, which is helping me overcome my fear of rejection.
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