my husband takes no initiative for sex,but when I starts it he is normal to sex.but if I didn't take initiativefor a monthwe won't have it.he says he don't want a feelfor that.but during sex he is very much enjoying it and have orgasm.why this nature now. heis 55now and 'm 45
Has your sex life always been good together? Or did it start off a bit shaky?
The reason I ask comes from personal experiance, my wife and I have an absolutly fantastic sex life together nowdays, but only due to me hanging in there, and my wife putting in a hell of a lot of effort!
The first few years of our sex lives was terrible, and a part of that was constant sexual rejection on my initiation, this went on for years, and in a nutshell, has left me very wery, and to be honest, still absoutly terrified to initiate sex.
Maybe this is something from a former partner?
Nowdays my wife and i talk openly about the issue, and all sexual issues, which is helping me overcome my fear of rejection.