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March 11th, 2008
My husband doesn't seem sexually attracted to me anymore. We've only been married for two years and for the past year and a half he doesn't seem to have any desire for me. He loves looking at porn and seems to enjoy doing so. He says he always looked at porn and will continue looking at it even if it makes me feel really bad. He says that nothing is wrong but he works away from home and is sometimes gone two months at a time. When he came home this last time he was in for two weeks and we only had sex one time. Is it just me expecting to much or is there a problem?
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Willa Weintraub
replied March 13th, 2008
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Sounds like there is a problem to me. If I were you I would think he was not attracted to me anymore and that he was sleeping with other people while he was out for work. I don't know any man that would go without sex *that* long if they didn't have to. Maybe actually sit down and have a conversation with him about this. He *should* care if it makes you feel bad. If he doesn't care, what kind of husband is he?
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Beebobee
replied March 14th, 2008
UHOH. To be honest I agree with melissa. NO GUY has ever gone that long without sex even the homosexuals. You should confront him about how you feel.
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JACK37
replied March 14th, 2008
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HE'S GOT ANOTHER MAN OR WOMAN
i am 70 years old and i need it three times a week still. i know i can do it everyday. my wife is hot. if i go away for a week...we head right to bed. no joke ...i love her....
your man has another man or woman. no man love porn all the time. they want the real thing his wife or some one else. dump him
jack still in love at 70 and still ready all the time.
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363036bb
replied May 30th, 2010
Are you still with your Husband? If you are you either put up with what's going on or he quit looking at porn. You have choices you don't have to stay with a man that doesn't care about your feelings. He sounds like he has issues & he may be cheating on you. How old is he?
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