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June 15th, 2011
One night when I got up I saw my husband masterbating on Porn. I am really really hurt about the same. he is unaware that I know this. What could be the cause as I feel now he pretends that he is sexually happy with me. Is it due to I am not able to fulfill his desire?
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kristigraham
replied June 15th, 2011
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You need to tell him that you saw it and felt hurt. There can be many reasons, like he did not want to wake you up, but fell horny. Only he could say.
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lonleywife46
replied August 12th, 2012
I been married for 16 years and for 10 years , yes 10 years my husband and I have not been intimate , he tells me he don't have the urges , but I always catch him masturbate from watching porn . I feel ugly and unlove . He tells me its normal for man to watch porn . But he won't have sex with me because he says he dont feel like it , but he can masterbate . Help what can I do ? I stayed faithfull . But now my self esteem is very low . And very depressed
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lonleywife46
replied August 12th, 2012
I been married for 16 years and for 10 years , yes 10 years my husband and I have not been intimate , he tells me he don't have the urges , but I always catch him masturbate from watching porn . I feel ugly and unlove . He tells me its normal for man to watch porn . But he won't have sex with me because he says he dont feel like it , but he can masterbate . Help what can I do ? I stayed faithfull . But now my self esteem is very low . And very depressed
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verne01
replied August 14th, 2012
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lonleywife46 wrote:
I been married for 16 years and for 10 years , yes 10 years my husband and I have not been intimate , he tells me he don't have the urges , but I always catch him masturbate from watching porn . I feel ugly and unlove . He tells me its normal for man to watch porn . But he won't have sex with me because he says he dont feel like it , but he can masterbate . Help what can I do ? I stayed faithfull . But now my self esteem is very low . And very depressed


I sympathise with you...
It isn't natural for a man to watch porn to the exclusion of normal sexual relations!
It is natural for both men and women to be interested in seeing what porn is all about and SOMETIMES use it for added tittillation or when the normal means of release is not available.

It sounds like your husband is addicted and desensitised by porn and ordinary sexual encounters are no longer adequate for him - overexposure to porn can do this in the same way as drugs, alcohol or gambling creates addicts...

I feel if you are to save your relationship and save him from himself you both need some counselling or he needs a warning letter from a divorce lawyer. Of course you could try getting angry first...

Best of luck!
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