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Q: Husband doesn't always ejaculate

asked by: tableton123 on October 10th, 2009

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My husband is 54 and we have been married for 30 years. Recently he had an affair with an old lover (before I came along) and he thought he was in love with her and wanted a divorce. We separated for a month and he decided he wanted to stay with me and our family. He still has feelings for this woman. Since he has been back, we have sex almost everyday, but he does'nt always ejaculate. I take this personally and I'm afraid he starts thinking about this other woman and that is why he doesn't ejaculate. He says that isn't true, that it's just because we are having sex so often. Is that true?

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W0LF

replied on October 10th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

More likely true
Men have more difficulty ejaculating if they've released recently. If this girl sexually arouses your husband then thinking about her would not make him less likely to orgasm, it would make it easier for him to do so. Another possibility is that the trust in your marriage is shot. You guys aren't making the connection you used to because he feels horrible for what he's done and you're too busy thinking about him with this other girl to concentrate on connecting with him.
It sounds very much like there are a lot of things left unsaid about this affair between you both.

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