humping pillow

Yeah um you just need to get a girlfriend probably. You can't get a prescription for those though...

yeh i agree maybe you just need female company, or maybe try masturbating with your hand to stop these urges if it is really bothering you Jenny

Can you go to hell for doing that?

I masturbate by humping my pillow almost everyday, so I can't in good conscience tell you to stop (it just feels so good!) But finding a significant other can't be beat; marrying my husband, who I have a beautiful little girl with, was the best choice I ever made. Find someone special, and keep masturbating - you can have your cake and eat it too!
- pearlrub

I used to masturbate that way when I was younger. Im 19 now, I quit when I met my vibrator Works like a charm <3 My bf helps out here and there aswell. ha.

i'm 12 bout to turn 13
will humping ur pillow stop your period
will it delay it??

i love doing it.
but i dnt kno if i shud stop

shud i stop?????

I also have this problem. So don't worry you are not alone. I have been humping my pillow since I was 3 or 4 and am still doing it today. I'm 12 by the way and really need advice. I am the only one out of my friends that has not started their periods. Does humping prevent your periods? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!

Most likely your period hasn't started because you aren't ready physically yet. I am a male and I did not start to ejaculate until I was 14 however all my friends were well ahead of me. And yes I was a pillow humper lol

Also Crazynconfused I really admire you for being sooooo brave and admiting that you do it! It is hard to admit it!

Faye and CrazyConfused, Masturbation is a natural thing and good for your body and mood. While we don't go about telling everybody that we are masturbating, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Many, many women and men do it. Even women you will never suspect.

Your periods are controlled by your hormones. Many things can affect your hormones, growing up, stress, worry, bad nutrition, exercise, weight, medicine, poor health and much more.

Masturbation does not affect your menstrual cycle directly. If you are close to your period, the contractions can force out some menstrual debris when you orgasm.

Do not worry about your periods not starting at 12 yo. As many girls start after 12 as before 12. There is nothing wrong with you.

Take care!

thank you susan for your post you have reasurred me that i am normal but can you answer some questions for me that i am curious about please? these questions are...
Is is normal to masturbate at a young age!
My dad caught me doing it once and i got a smacked bum and grounded for a week i can't talk to them though or anyone else i feel so dirty is this a normal way to feel!
Sometimes i hump my hands as well as it is quicker but i seem to get this sort of whitish fluid in my knickers what is this?
Thank you!

Faye, Remember that your parents are your primary resource for information about sex and what is happening to your body. If you are not comfortable talking to them, find another adult woman you trust, a teacher or a nurse or an aunt or one of your friend's mothers.

The time you start to menstruate is called 'menarche'. Halve of girls in the USA/UK reach this before age 12 years 5 months. The other halve after that. You do however reach puberty about a year before that when your breasts start to enlarge and you start to grow pubic hair. From the time your puberty start, you can have wild fluctuations in your hormone levels which can cause all sorts of urges.

Many younger girls discover masturbation and the wonderful feelings it can bring at a very early age, just like you did. Unborn babies even masturbate and orgasm in their mother's wombs. This can sometimes be seen on ultra sound scans. Masturbation is thus totally normal and natural. You are born with the instinct to orgasm.

Since masturbation does not harm or hurt you, it is difficult to say it is harmful. As long as you do not become preoccupied with masturbation and do it in privacy, it is not unhealthy. Even though we do not talk about is, most women masturbate from time to time, your mother, aunts, cousins, friends, teachers, friend's mothers, shop assistants, police women, soldiers, nurses, doctors. It does not matter how old or where in the world. It is happening all around you.

What your parents did is a normal reaction to finding their children masturbating. What they should have done was to educate you about what was happening with your body and what is acceptable behavior for a young woman and what is not. That way you can make your own decisions based on your knowledge, not on old wives tales and scary stories, or the fear of punishment.

As a society we should be teaching young adults that sex is good and pleasurable. With sex we do however also get responsibilities; like controlling our urges, not becoming slutty women, putting our health and well being first when it comes to sex, reserve sex for long term relationships, to take responsibility and prevent becoming pregnant outside our long term relationship, to treat other people ourselves and our bodies with respect. Unfortunately we more often teach teens that sex is shameful, bad and wrong.

This is one of the reasons why you feel 'dirty'. The other reason is that when you have an orgasm, loads of feel good hormones are injected into your brain and blood stream. You get a 'high' and feel healthy and great. As soon as these hormones leave your body, you go into a state of slight depression that makes you feel guilty and ashamed. This is normal and all men and women feel this way until they make peace with their sexual side. And even then you can still sometimes feel this way.

It is good that you also use your hands. I would encourage you to rather use your hands and fingers to masturbate; this will allow your body to become used to the more focused stimulation you will typically experience with a partner later. Turn around on your back and reach orgasm that way.

Orgasms are a great way to relax, get to sleep, work off stress, learn about your body and sexual self. Like with everything else in life, too much is bad for you.

What is the secretions you find inside your knickers? Your whole fertility cycle is controlled by your hormones. These hormones also cause various secretions that come out of your vagina. When you start to menstruate, these hormone cycles will become much more pronounced. Your cervix at the top of your vagina will secrete all sorts of different fluids during your cycle. Menstrual blood, a sticky whitish fluid, a creamy fluid and a very wet clear and stretchy fluid. Some days it will be completely dry. During puberty, your hormones are not fully settled down. These fluids can appear in copious amounts as your hormone cycle starts up and begin to regulate.

When you become aroused, blood flows to your vagina and vulva. Your clitoris becomes erect and your vagina swells up. This swelling squeezes a fluid from the cells in the vaginal walls. This is called arousal fluid and will also come out of your vagina onto your knickers.

Talking of secretions, remember to wash your vulva with either a mild unscented soap, or just plain clean water. Wash between all the folds down there. Also wash under the hood that is over your clitoris. Just pull it back and wash there.

I hope this answer the questions you had!

iv been doing it since age 10 and iv gone through evrything fine

I've been masturbating by humping a pillow since I was maybe 9, and now I'm 22. It's the only way I know of to reach an orgasm. I'm a virgin and I'm scared because of this that I won't be able to have an orgasm when I actually have sex. Should I be worried? Or is there something I can do to change that.

I started masturbating very early. I was 3 or 4 years old. I use to hump stuff animals and pillows lol. I did it for a long time until I discovered my hands were better. I think you should try stimulating your clitoris with your fingers and get yourself super aroused before you enter your vagina. Since you are use to humping a pillow, this will be different to you. Think of it as exploring. I think Using your fingers is closer to actually being pleasured by a man.

Crazynconfussed, your dad should be smacked and grounded. Masturbation is totally natural and parents that think otherwise need to go to parenting classes. As for your period well that is totally up to nature to start it. I went to college with a young lady that was 19 and she only had a period every few months. However she had no body fat and was very athelic. She rode motocross those 2 factors had a lot to do with her menstrel cycle. Your body will adjust to puberity and your womanly functions will start when your body is ready. If you are really afraid go to your school nurse and ask her. She can also answer other questions you may have that you don't want to ask your parents.

Hump your pillows every chance you get it feels good it's safe you don't have to worry about catching any disease. I have been doing it for over 25 years. When i was about 15 years old there was a lady who lived around the corner she must've been in early 50s maybe late 40s

She was cleaning out her house and throwing a bunch of stuff away. She had a few extra pillows that she wanted to throw away. She told me that her husband used to masturbate that way many years ago before he passed away. She explained what he did and she told me she got gratification out of doing it as well. She asked me if I wanted the pillows that she was going to throw away kind of hinting to me that she knew I had plans to masturbate.

She gave me those pillows and a whole bunch of pillowcases knowing what I had plans to do.
She said that I better take the pillowcases that way I could discard them whenever I wanted to and my mother would never find out what I was doing. It was kind of interesting listening to an older woman tell me how to masturbate.

Every time I came over to cut the lawn she always asked me if the pillows were serving me ok One day I got into graphic explanation as to how I did. I told her the pleasure Was so great I could not stop doing it. And to this day I still do that every chance I get.. I think she was actually getting wet listening to me as a young kid talking about how I screwed those pillows. I really do believe she was getting off on it. Looking back I wish I would have asked her if she wanted to watch me molest those pillows. I would've done it in a heartbeat right in front of her

I would love to meet an older woman that was willing to masturbate that way in front of me. I would treat her like she was never treated before... I look at a pile of pillows the way a woman might look At a big wet Dildo. I can't wait to take advantage of them like a sexual object . It feels great. Especially the fluffy soft down pillows.....I would enjoy meeting up with a older woman that wanted to masturbate with me that way.