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How would I tell him that we girls are not as horny as boys

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Hi,

I'm having a problem with my boyfreiend and I had posted my query before as well, but I didn't get any good advise. My sister and me used to lick genitals of each other in our childhood and we enjoyed a lot and I told this to my boyfriend that I licked my sister ass. Now he wants the sane thing from me.

He forces me to lick his ass and I hate doing that, I lick his penis and his testis, but I can't lick his ass as it smells like fish. Now tell me how do I deny for that?
He says if I can lick your ass then why can't you? How would I tell him that we girls are not as horny as boys are. Please advise me what should I do?
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replied October 20th, 2011
I am probably the wrong person to answer this because I got all sorts of red flags by your use of the words 'forces me to lick his ass'. First off, no one should force you to do anything you don't want to do. If is truly what's happening, you need to get out of this relationship STAT.

Taking that out of the equation, he does have a pretty valid point. I, personally, will not allow a man to do things to me that I am not willing to reciprocate because this is only fair.

So...is it strictly the 'fishy' smell that turns you off? I suspect there is more to the equation because the smell issue can be fixed with soap and water. Your answer of girls not being as horny as guys is invalid because horniness has nothing to do with reciprocating a rim job. I think you need to figure out the real reason why you are unwilling to do this for your boyfriend. And it is okay if it just isn't your thing because not everyone is turned on by the same things. But in the spirit of fairness, you should stop him from licking your butt if you aren't willing to do the same. And if he's determined that you should do something that you don't want to do, you need to question if this is the relationship you are supposed to be in.
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replied October 20th, 2011
I am probably the wrong person to answer this because I got all sorts of red flags by your use of the words 'forces me to lick his ass'. First off, no one should force you to do anything you don't want to do. If is truly what's happening, you need to get out of this relationship STAT.

Taking that out of the equation, he does have a pretty valid point. I, personally, will not allow a man to do things to me that I am not willing to reciprocate because this is only fair.

So...is it strictly the 'fishy' smell that turns you off? I suspect there is more to the equation because the smell issue can be fixed with soap and water. Your answer of girls not being as horny as guys is invalid because horniness has nothing to do with reciprocating a rim job. I think you need to figure out the real reason why you are unwilling to do this for your boyfriend. And it is okay if it just isn't your thing because not everyone is turned on by the same things. But in the spirit of fairness, you should stop him from licking your butt if you aren't willing to do the same. And if he's determined that you should do something that you don't want to do, you need to question if this is the relationship you are supposed to be in.
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replied October 21st, 2011
Thanks for your kind reply. I told me him that I can't do that and he agreed with me. since he was my boy friend I can't see him dipress so I've found a new way a new way to give him more pleasure. I give him a blowjob in various positions that he enjoys a lot. When I give him a blowjob he gets mad and start pressing my breast hard and sometimes he quirts my nipples too. He says that If I press your breast hard then my breast increses and will become extra large. Is this correct?
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replied October 26th, 2011
Oh honey...there are so many red flags going off in my head right now. He hurts your breasts when he's mad then claims he is trying to make them bigger? No no no no no! His excuse for hurting you is invalid...pinching your breast either by pressing them hard or squishing your nipples is not going to make your breasts bigger. Any size increase caused by temporary swelling will go away when the swelling goes down. Angel, baby, please please please reconsider why you are with this guy. There are women who have been seriously hurt dealing with men like the one you are describing.:-/
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