salam.dear dr plz advice me wht should i have to do?my problem is i was engaged with some1 after doing engagement my fiance force me for sex he told me that ur mine i have authority to have sex with u i give him permission b/c he wil become my husband bt after 1 year before our marriage he died my family doesnt know that i alredy runied my life?now my family wants to to marriage with an other person im toooo much worried i cant tell to anybody my vergin is not in orginal form plzzzz tel me how i can get my vergin in orginal form.or how can i make it tight.should i have to marry or not?plzzzzz guide me
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You can get married and have a normal sexual life. Do not worry about your past. There are pelvic floor exercises and other muscular exercises to help you tighten up the vaginal walls. There are creams and serums also available that you can use after getting examined by your gynecologist if needed. There is virginity restoring surgery available in which the hymen is repaired.
If you were an athletic personality in your school days, then hymen can get ruptured even otherwise due to rigorous physical activity (cycling, running, long/high jump, etc). So rupture of hymen and bleeding during first time intercourse is no longer considered as proof of virginity.
Go ahead with examination done by your gynecologist and discuss about possibilities that might be done to help you out.
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