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Q: How to stop masterbation ??
asked by: Baiz on January 30th, 2009
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I'm addicted on masterbation one time weekly. and I ejaculate fast now.
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lulalilo
replied on January 30th, 2009
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Once a week isn't much at all. Definitively not an addiction.
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Baiz
replied on January 31st, 2009
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but I'm afraid from being sterile.
does ejaculating((masterbation))efects on being sterile???
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vulcan
replied on February 1st, 2009
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no sterility
One thing have nothing to do with the other, I think is healthty to do it, once in a while as far this do not become the center of your sexual life. I you dont do it you are going to have emissions, because you have to get rid of your semen. Good luck to you
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furrytail
replied on February 1st, 2009
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Masturbation is healthy, don't be worried
Baiz,
First off, and I think I have to mention this as least once a month on the eHealth forum - There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation. We all do it and we all enjoy it. Now the fact that your doing it once a week is not a problem, and certainly not an addiction.
Vulcan makes a good point that you should not base your entire sex life on masturbation as humans require other humans to enjoy a full sex life so please keep this in mind.

If you are worried I am more than willing to discuss further.

Wendy
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Baiz
replied on February 2nd, 2009
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ok I'll be thankfull if you tell me why?& how?
why after ejaculating I begin feeling guilty. and there is something wrong with me, because I ejaculate fast(like 1 minute or little more) now , how to make it longer??
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furrytail
replied on February 2nd, 2009
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Baiz,
When we masturbate, we get excited, aroused and literally caught up in the moment and all we want to do is continue the wonderful feeling until we orgasm and for guys that means ejaculation. Afterwards, there is a drop from the heights that were reached while in the throws of masturbation and we feel a little depressed and perhaps guilty if we feel, although we really shouldn't feel this way, that what we just did was wrong. This is a false sense of guilt brought on by an incorrect assumption that was just happened was wrong. It is not wrong to masturbate.

As for cuming too quickly, you may need to work on penis control and look into ways to de-sensitize the penis. For penis control, you should try to stop jerking off just before you are about to cum and wait for the feeling to subside then resume jerking. This will assist you in working on prolonging the time taken before cumming. You can also look into methods for desensitization and you can try your local pharmacy.

Hope this helps,
Wendy
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Baiz
replied on February 3rd, 2009
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thanx 4 the info((wendy)), but I lose my erection slowly after ejaculating. is it normal??
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furrytail
replied on February 3rd, 2009
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Baiz,
From what I have seen of the guys I've been with that pretty much happens all the time. Usually once the guy cums, his penis gets soft and deflats. The time it takes for the guy to get hard again varies from guy to guy.

Wendy
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Baiz
replied on February 4th, 2009
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Wendy,
thanx for the help with in this topic
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amit_0223k
replied on September 2nd, 2009
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Hey Wendy (FurryTail)....
I was masturbating from last 7-8 years...
Now I feel that there is lack of erection in my organ..
Can u please help me how to stop masturbation completely (even if its not harmful I want 2 stop it permanently)
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Voicefromabove
replied on September 7th, 2009
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Just before bed cut up 2 habanero peppers and crush them in your hands. Do not wash your hands.
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amit_0223k
replied on September 7th, 2009
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How does it help me to stop masturbation?? Is that have any side effects??
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gigles3151
replied on September 7th, 2009
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uhh peppers?!?! did you ever think maybe they might be hot??? so when you go to put your hand on you hoohaa it might make that hot too???. then would you want to masterbate???. or try deep heat on you hands aswell, and wasabi. there you go. no masterbating for you.
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timeisshort
replied on September 7th, 2009
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amit_0223k you seem intent to stop this is there a more serious reason for you to want this, such as religious?!
You will get a variety of reasons for & against but if it is on your conscience than maybe it is a stronger force working in your life & if so don't fight it, just because people here tell you what they think is right doesn't necessarily make it right!
Let me know your thoughts on this as i believe i can help you with your victory over this.
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dane211
replied on September 7th, 2009
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A total lack of ejaculation-be it via masturbation or intercourse- can have serious bad consequences.

I read an article in a med mag about these men who allowed themselves to be totally controlled by a women (spouse or otherwise). One guy in particular, obeyed his "mistress" and did not ejaculate for 6 months. After a bit of ache and pain in his crotch area, he went to a Dr. It seems his prostate had developed an infection of some sort because of absolutly no ejaculation. The Dr. did a prostate massage ( I can't remember if the guy stroked or rub himself at the same time or not) but when he got close to cumming, he all of the suuden screamed in agony as he came. Seems that there was a lot of other factors in the body. The tubing from the prostate had not been stretch or whatever for all that time.
As well as the muscles used to cum had not been used.

report finished to say that the physical and psychological consequences of self denial aren't good.
When one denies oneself of it, it ends up being the only thing they think of.
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