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hey, so I know its real because I've done it twice.
But I want to know how to do it again.
If anyone one has any stores about positions thay have tried that worked please let me know.

The first time it happened to me I was slightly buzzed and my best friend and her boyfriend was haveing sex in another room.
she was moaning really loud. And it was hot.
I was having sex with my bf and I was in doggy position over the bed.
AND IT HAPPEND. yay

And the second time was just me playing with a dildo and viberator For a really really long time.

So if anyone could please help out let me know.
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replied June 6th, 2008
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Okay so far
so far I know I need to stimulate the g spot
so maybe Ill try reverse cow girl.

And I also learned that you will have a higher chance doing it if you have strong pc muscles... so ima start doing my kegel excersizes...
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replied June 6th, 2008
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Some women never get this kind of orgasm. I think it is a 'whatever works for you' kind of thing, to be honest.

Good luck finding 'your' spot!
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replied June 6th, 2008
lol
ummm.... lol
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replied June 7th, 2008
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The best one for me is him on top with my legs on his shoulders. If I'm hot enough before then from lots of foreplay, it usually works out well. Very Happy
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replied June 7th, 2008
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thanks ill try that
thanks alot ill try that.
I do foreplay.
I do that position.
I think ill try putting them together! =]
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replied June 7th, 2008
try this....
My husband can get me to squirt every time he goes down on me. Lots of clitoral stimulation with his tongue, paired with g-spot stimulation with his fingers. As long as your man doesn't mind the mess, that's a great way to get there since you're so relaxed.
P.S. Use towels!!!! Smile
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replied June 7th, 2008
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hum...
sounds good. but also sounds like it might take a really long time.
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replied June 7th, 2008
Sometimes it does and sometimes it's surprisingly quick...just depends on the mood Wink
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replied June 8th, 2008
Re: try this....
MinnE8 wrote:
Lots of clitoral stimulation with his tongue, paired with g-spot stimulation with his fingers.
P.S. Use towels!!!! Smile



Thats exactly how I squirt. For me its all clitoral stimulation. Have him experiment down there when you get that slight feeling of having to pee tell him to KEEP GOING!! harder softer faster slower whatever is good for you. Then relax your whole body and it will squirt out...for me anyways hope it works!!
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replied June 9th, 2008
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thanks. let me know if you get any new ideas
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replied June 9th, 2008
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Ok I feel really dumb asking this but I must know the answer.

How can you tell the difference between pee and ejaculate? I am not sure if I have squirted or just peed. Usually during oral I get really turned on. There is no urge to pee just an urger to release. I dont actually focus on releasing it just kind of happens without any control on my part. It feels really warm and watery. I have assumed it was urine, so I hop up and rush to the bathroom. Since my hubby was giving me oral at the time I am too embarressed to admit this to him cause what if I did pee and he was down there...gross!!!

He just thinks I had to go to the bathroom. I dont like hiding this from him, but the thought of actually peeing on him really terrifies me. I have a very week bladder normally and now that I am 6 months pregnant its even worse. So I am always worried.

SO what do you women think it is?
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replied June 9th, 2008
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when you squirt its clear maybe a tad bite water white substance in it. And it doesnt smell like pee.
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replied June 10th, 2008
sounds like you squirted!
Rosie H wrote:
Ok I feel really dumb asking this but I must know the answer.

How can you tell the difference between pee and ejaculate? I am not sure if I have squirted or just peed. Usually during oral I get really turned on. There is no urge to pee just an urger to release. I dont actually focus on releasing it just kind of happens without any control on my part. It feels really warm and watery.


That sounds exactly what squirting is like! When you squirt, you don't really have control, it just squirts or gushes out. It is very watery, but it is clear or slightly milky....not yellow, and it doesn't smell like urine. It might be a lot of liquid, or just a little, but I would recommend using a thick towel to keep the sheets dry. (I hate trying to sleep on the wet spot!) Also, depending on the types of food you eat, it may even taste slightly sweet to your husband. (Less or no meats, more fruits and veggies.) Try doing a google search on "female ejaculation" and you should find some more info about it. Don't sweat it, Rosie! It sounds like you're a squirter! Smile
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replied June 14th, 2008
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How do you get a guys to give you more forplay with out sounding rude?
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replied June 14th, 2008
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I don't think it sounds rude to begin with, but you could say that you really liked it when he [insert whatever you want] and that you'd like it if he did it more.

Guys don't usually get cranky when you ask for something and give a compliment at the same time.
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replied January 31st, 2010
I play with my wife's clit with my thumb, my index finger rubs her g spot, my four-finger stimulates the area between her vagina and anus, and I'm sucking on her breast, and in 5 to 10 minutes later it like a geyser. She is good for about 3 to 5 each session.

Hope this helps. Good luck. Go Saints!
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replied January 21st, 2012
I know that just by playing by myself, i would 'tease' myself like get close to hitting my limit but then stop cool down for a few seconds then go at it again a couple of times and then i finally gave in and it just rushed all out like it was a bottle full of liquid turned on its side, you pull the cork out and it rushed out fast. It was my first and actually only time doing this so i was scared it was pee but then i started reading more and found out that by just playing before actual pleasure you may end up squirting i guess. I hope this helped someone
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replied June 15th, 2012
My boyfriend doesnt want to give me foreplay i always give him foreplay of all the things he likes but he just doesnt understand i need some to he just thinks im turned on as soon as he wants it and everytime i ask him he just goes "i cant be bothered" its like right okay thanks -_- what can i do so he will give me more foreplay?
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replied June 15th, 2012
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This is only my own personal opinion, but....

It sounds like he is just using you to satisfy his own needs. My first reaction is to get rid of him. If he is this way when you are intimate and private, he must have a lot of other problems as well. But then he might just be very ignorant and undereducated.

You have the vagina, so you make the rules. Don't have sex with him if he does not satisfy your needs. Tell him that that is why. Or change it so that you orgasm first before you touch him for foreplay.

Maybe he does not know how. Show him. Sit him down and masturbate in front of him. You can even take his hand and use that to masturnate with.

Some guys are really put off by oral sex. It is ok, but then he should please you in another way like with his fingers.
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replied June 15th, 2012
He is very good at the actually sex part but we only have it about four times a month -_- im only 18 i have a very high sex drive and hes only 23 so he should too but he doesnt like doing oral on me and he says the when he fingers me my cum dries out his skins which i dont really belive but i just put up with it cause i would like to have sex once in a while lol and ive just recently come out of a really painful time with my clit my brain believing that it supposed to hurt rather then pleasure i know wierd but its gone now Smile as my cli is the only way i can have an orgasm im too scared to let him do it and when i do cause im telling him where it feel better he gets bored and just goes " oh do it yourself" weve been together four four years
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replied June 15th, 2012
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The one thing I can guarantee you is that it is not going to get any better. So if you are dissatisfied,unfulfilled and frustrated now, another 4 years will make it worse.

The oral sex I can understand. It is his choice, and it should never be forced. But...

I have never in my life heard of a man that complains about his skin getting dry when he fingers a woman. And even if it really does, it is easy to fix with a bit of hand cream. A normal man gets a lot of his pleasure from pleasuring you. That is why you will read a lot of posts here about guys wanting to know how to pleasure their partners, and women saying that their partners spend so much time and effort, they feel guilty because they do not orgasm.

Did he have some traumatic sexual experience when he was younger?
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replied June 15th, 2012
I don't really knOw I've stopped asking about his previous relationships cause I know after he's told ne that I really didn't want to know I always think maybe If I give him lots of foreplay he will to me but that don't happen however he did today so woo lol Smile but I just wish it could be all the time not just when I decide to wear something sexy :/
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replied June 15th, 2012
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Wool hoo!! There you go.

I do suggest that you make sure you tell him after the sex how good it made you feel, and how much you appreciate it. Tell him how much you are looking forward to be with him again. Even of it is the next day, or in a text message or emailing a naughty photo to him. Make sure that he understands that that is what turned you on.

It is also good to realize that sometimes, quicky sex is good, and can be fun. Even if you do not enjoy it as much. But that it is not good too often.

Sex also does not start when you get naked. Good sex will start way before with hints, suggestive moves, sexy words, looks, touches or whatever. When you do finally end up in bed, take it slow. Do not just rip off your underwear, let him do it. Take your time, intercourse is the final part of sex, not the whole part. If he does not spend the time, tell him you are not ready yet and you want to spend some more time kissing and making out first.

Sometimes it can also be ifun for both of you if you take the lead. Pin him down and get on top of him. You can rub on him. In that position you can use his penis like a sex toy. If he tries to penetrate you too soon, just laugh and say 'no, not until I say I am ready, now lie back down and enjoy it.'
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replied December 21st, 2012
No. He has the penis and probably the money. Women need it just as bad as men, sometimes worse (if you are talking about a healthy sexual woman). So, no a vagina does not make the rules. A strong man with a hard penis always has and always will "make the rules".
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replied June 15th, 2012
I have naughty pics ready :3 but we do constantly tease each other so I guess that's a turn on lol I just dint want four years of relationship get worse I want it to get better Smile
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