probably pelvic floor excercises or kegels (what they call for females). i don't know if they call it kegels for males, but if anything would help, that'd probably be it. essentially, you are trying to exercise like you were stopping your pee stream/and/or clinching your anus/butt muscles.

my question is...why would it be important to you to be able to shoot harder? you lookin' to put some innocent girls eye out?

jasmine

It makes little sense as to why you want to be able to shoot harder.

It isn't as if a guy is more attractive/appealing/better in bed based on his ability to shoot hard/far.

But yes, kegel (muscle) exercises may do it for you, I used to do them for kicks, but for the purpose to be able to control my orgasms better. But that is another story.

You can probably find out kegel exercises easily online, but one such exercise, is when you are urinating, forcibly stop yourself midstream and hold it for a few seconds, and let go. Repeat.

while you are cumming don't tighten your butt cheeks, for whatever reason it make it feel better

at first I didn't realize that I did that but when I stopped myself from doing it more cum is released and it feels better!

This might not help with your interest, but if you go to your local health food store and purcahse some soy lecithin granules and take 1 or 2 level teaspoons a day in juice(lecithin tastes bad) per day, it will increase the volume of semen produced by the prostate gland. Too many fist fights with your other head can actually condition your sex drive to prefer masterbating to fantasies.

It`s true that tightening up doesn`t help. I`ve found that I stay harder longer and cum harder if I actually push like I am going to urinate. Enjoy YOUR sex life and stop trying to measure up to expectations you may hear or see; when you get to be my age, you just might become like me. Whenmy wife hits on me I say,"Okay dearest but, can we hurry and get this over with so we can go back to being friends?