okay i was dating this guy *that's right he's an ex now* but i'm still self concious because i gave him a lot of bj's but he never cummed once. he told me that it wasn't me and that he didn't know why he couldn't cum. whenever we stopped he always said he was so close and that his balls where hurting *blue balls* well he didn't say i was bad he just said i did it too quick *the first two times where just experiments* and asked me if could slow down and do it longer and maybe that would help....i did for awhile but he never cummed. he said that he enjoyed it and i think he might have because he was breathing heavily and moving his fingers and i could feel some penis vibrations *idk what that means* is he just one of those guys that can't cum from bj's or am i just that bad?

btw: this was the first few times i gave bj's and i was the first girl that gave him oral so that could be another reason i just need to know if i did it right that way when i do it to a more experienced guy i won't feel embarrassed