Excuse me, would someone please help me out here? I've been wanting to see my now fiance cum for quite some time now, especially since I've never seen a girls flooding before, but whenever we have intercourse now, even though it's sometimes even above 10/10 I can't hold the pace and strength level for more than like ten minutes- I believe -without making myself reach my own climax. Of course our sex lasts over twenty minutes, but nothing is either good enough or lasts long enough to make her cum. When I finger her at this specific spot however, she tells me not to do it too hard because apparently it makes her feel like she's going to pee herself if I press it in too much while rubbing it, but it's her favorite spot as far as I can tell. I understand that intercourse alone may not be enough to get a girl to climax, but what I want to know is, "What are the other things that must be done?" After intercourse she doesn't want to do anything else because she's 'too exhausted' but I still haven't seen her ejaculate yet, and I know that she can since when she masterbates over the phone with me it only takes her anywhere from two- or three since she said she was doing it for a minute already before I new it -to maybe a little over ten minutes to cum. I've even seen cum around her vaginal entry that she apparently forgot to clean up from the night before when she masterbated- I didn't know -so I know that she can cum. I figured out that for me, the longer period of time that I keep myself from doing anything that would make me cum, the sooner I cum while we do have intercourse, so I figured that maybe it's the same for girls, but I don't know, the thing is though, I doubt she'd even hold out for very long even if I asked her to. So would someone please be kind enouh to tell me what I can do? She absolutly refuses to masterbate in front of me as far as I can tell. The only time that sh didactually masterbate from me asking her to- who knows how many times -she stopped like three seconds after. I don't want anyoneto say that I'm forcing though, I just want to see HER do it. She's seen me do it plenty of times. It's not very fair.